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i need help fast
Here is the thing I have this one friend that seems to always be ditching me for other people or her boyfriend like for example sunday we planned we would go shopping on tuesday and come to find out she went monday with some other people and didn't even tell me or invite me. And now today (tuesday) she is doing something with her boyfriend that she planned yesterday and didn't tell me she wanted to do that then go to the mall cause if she told me I would be fine with it. But i found all that out on my own. And I am always inviting her places ( that she drops out on), I tell her when i can't do something with her, and i don't ditch her for other people with out atleast telling her and I even invite her with us ( when she never does that for me) so all in all i feel like she is using me but the thing is I really like her as a friend we are almost best friends at times but i just want to know what can i do or say to her about this with out her getting mad. HELP thanks i will rate high if it is good.
P.S. she is always turning things around so it is my fault or problem and it makes me look bad
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wow, im srry but that girl isnt your friend. you should ditch your plans a few times, then maybe gradually stop taking her phone calls, and then call her one day and ask her why she hasnt called. but seriously, she isnt the hottest friend to have. even though it may be hard, you need to find a new friends, becaused you shouldnt have to deal with that crap. when she really needs you, she'll just use you and then forget you for the other half of the time. you dont need frends like that hunny!! its ok to move on, especially if ur so called friend is treating you like crap!!
**_Nicole_**
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Hey,
Well, I'm sorry that sucks! And so does that friend. I say ditch her. Get new friends! If she is going to do that to you then just get some new friends who won't do that to you. Wait till she invites you to something and not you doing all the inviting. You have to realize one-sided relationships don't work! Good Luck!
*Kaila
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Sweetheart, she is running a con on you. Confidence Game for the spell out. I hate to be the one to tell you, but this girl is a totally selfish user. I bet the times you feel you are best friends is when it turns out she needs something from you or you are about to dump her as a friend for good. She turns situations around to make things seem like your fault? Manipulative using 101, the basics. This girl will suck you dry and only be your friend when she has something to gain from the effort. You can't say anything that will not make her mad, because your opinions don't really matter to her. She uses her anger as another tool to control your behavior. She knows you want to be her friend and she is using your kindness against you. You seem like a great person and I have been mixed up with too many people like this not to know he signs. Don't let her get you into a postion where she can use you. If you lose her "so-called" friendship, you are soo much better off. You are a great person, don't let her drag you down. Big Hug and Good Luck!
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