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My "friend" not too many people like,and so sometimes its embarasing to be around her.Shes not a geek or something like that.Shes just annoying,rude and imatture.She always is using me on our homework to.I dont want to be her frined any more and ive told her how rude shes being,and she just comes up with lame comebacks.Shes not getting the hint,and shes obsessed with me.How do i get rid of her,or at least get her to back off without hurting her?
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There is no way around hurting her really.. It's funny how that happens to a lot of people because I had a friend like that.. she was completely obsessed. It hurt to be so mean but I told her how I felt, and how she was being really rude, and using me.. I hated it and I hated being around her if she was going to be like that. I finally told her that if she didn't change I didn't want to be friends anymore.. and well.. that friendship ended. You lose a few along the way.. it's part of life.
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tell her that you dont want her to use you on your hw!! and just maybe ignore her or something i know that sounds mean but it usually works or tell her that you dont want her to use you like that and that she needs to change or your not friends any more!! xOx jiLl
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Maybe you should just sit down with her and explane to her that you still want to be her friend but she just had to be not a rude. Maybe even calm down a little.well I hope it works for you and your friend.
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Don't worry too much about hurting her, obviously she's been hurting you for a long time. Explain that it is necessary for you to close this chapter in your book and you wish her well, but you don't think you can be the friends you were. If she pushes for more, just give 2 or 3 examples of when she hurt you and say that you have made your decision. Good luck!
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Dont do this in school or in public, because it will embarass her. Outside of school and everything..talk to her and reeally lay down the line. Its not good to hold emotions in, so if anyone tells you to try and deal with her and hold your frustration in, dont do it. Tell her firmly..(dont scream it..but dont sound gentl)that your SICK of her using you for homework. Also tell her your tired of how annoying, rude, and immature she can be. Tell her you think that some space would be best for the both of you. Do you still want to be her friend? If you do..tell her you want to be your friend, but you just cant deal with her annoying,rude,and immature ways anymore. If you dont want to be your friend, i tihnk she'll finally get the hint and back off of you.
-melissa
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