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Me and my boyfriend have been havin sex for about 10 months now and before him i had only slept with 2 people. Out of all the times i've had sex, I've never had an organsim. Is that normal? I mean don't get me wrong, it feels really good, but sometimes after about 20 or so minutes it feels the exact same and it gets a little old. But I still like it. Is there anything i could do to change alla that? i mean i wanna have orgasims, i wanna know what they feel like, i just cant seem to get there.
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Alright this is perfectlly normal. I honestly didnt have an orgasm with my boyfriend until like the 5th time we had sex. Its normal for girls to not have orgasms. Its harders for boys to please us than it is for us to please them lol. And u might wanna try different positions. Also gettin eaten out is awesome lol. Think about it.
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maybe try different positions
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Have him find your gspot. You won't be bored for much longer.
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Unfortunately, yes, it's normal for women to not orgasm during sex. Less than 100 years ago, respected doctors were arguing over wether or not it was even possible for women to orgasm.
Fortunately, the feminist movement has laid to rest the controversy and millions of women have declared "Yes, it's possible. It just takes a little work".
You will need to experiment. You can do this by yourself, masturbating, or with your boyfriend. I suggest a bit of both. I don't know how accurate it is, but I've been told that most people's first orgasms are the result of masturbation.
Things to try: oral and manual sex (have him use his mouth and/or his hands), waiting for penetration till you think your going to burst, positions where there is clitoral stimulation.
If your boyfriend requires more than 20 min of penetration to cum, you may want to use foreplay to help reduce his stamina. (learning to work your vaginal muscles and clenching is good here too).
Good luck!
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well first of all not having a oragasism while having sex is so not normal
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Many many women are pretty much uncapable of having an internal orgasm. There is a difference between having an internal orgasm (stimulated through sex) and an extrenal orgasm (by clitoral stimulation).
You and your boyfriend need to experiment in order to find out where and how you can have an orgasm. Even if he never actually finds out how to give you one through sex, it will still be fun trying now won't it?
Learn about Karma Sutra. That might help.
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