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Falling again!
OK, i have a big problem. well, its big to me at least. I fell in love with my friend of 6 years, and he loved me 2. but someone said that i was cheating on him (which i wasnt) and he believed it and me and him broke up. hes now going out with a girl (i know her) that he never sees or talks to. hes talked to her once since they started going out and thats it. and throughout the year before they got together me and him did the whole off and on thing cuz he kept leaving me then coming back and i stupidly took him back every time. then he hears something that isnt even true one time and he doesnt wanna be w/ me ever again. well, thinking about that i started to get over him. and now im falling back for him, i dont want to but i cant help it. i miss him constantly and i keep looking at my picture of him, and it wont work to stop looking at it, ive tried. plz help! and sorry this is long
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if a guy leaves you just because of something he heard and doesn't even bother to ask you about it, then he's hot good enough for you. you're better than that and this girl that he's going out with and doesn't talk to is probably going to break up with him if he doesn't start talking to her or something unless she's completely desperate and too stupid to break it off. anyways, if he's your friend of 6 years, then you guys are probably better off friends so you don't ruin that. looking at his picture is good for you...i did that after my bf broke up w/ me. you're better than him and you don't need him. open your eyes wide and look around @ other guys at school. good luck & hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
~if you need anything or some help w/ this guy, drop 1 in my inbox or im me(sxybellydancer91).
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next time he comes up to you, keep walking. you cant talk to him. give him the cold shoulder like hes been giving you. i know that it is hard, because i have to do the same thing. i just have to ignore him for a lil while, and so do you. dont keep taking him back. tell him that you'll be waiting untill he acts like a man and doesnt drop you because of some stupid rumor; he should have more trust than that.
**_Nicole_**
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don't keep taking him back. don't let me him keep coming back to you, you should definately move on! how can a relationship work without trust? what he isn't doing is trusting you, that's why he easily believes what others say. find someone who you can trust and who can trust you, and it'll last a long time! :)
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Since he went back and forth and then immediately believed a lie about you shows that he was already gone. I know, it sucks big time because we all want the one we have to chase. Keep busy, busy, busy and try to find a better one to chase. That will either get his attention if he really likes you or you'll end up with a newer/better bf and in the long run, much happier.
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