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o.k here's the thing.. my parents are o.k and all but we fight all the time.. i mean all we do is yell at me and i get treated like crap when my brother doesn't.. i always feel like they don't want me around and they always try to embarrass me in front of my friends. Like yesterday when i had a friend over my mom was like.. I'll tell you her biggest secret if you tell me who she likes! omg i don't think so! and then she said she was going to go and get the baby pictures out!!!! and my dad all he does is call me stupid and i'm never good enough and he says that i need to start working out.. basically saying that i'm fat! i'm not skinny as a rail but my dad doesn't need to be saying that kinda stuff about me! and he never wants to do anything w. me that doesn't envolve my brother and all they talk about is how good he is at golf blah blah blah blah!! it's really starting to bug me but idk if i should just keep letting it bother me like it does or if i should tell them that it bothers me.. i've tried it before but they just don't like to listen.. help?
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aw. what do your parents fight about? like is it about you. or things you do? but if it isn't about you. then there really is nothin you can do about it but just talk to them about the fighting thing. and just let them know that is really is bothering you. and about your brother, is he younger then you? cuz if he is then heres my only thing to say. all younger silbiling get treated better. not like you don't get good things. but like its just something w/ the baby child. but trust me. your time will come. have you talked to your mother about the friends thing. and let her know that that really bothers you. and there is a point were is it all just fun and games but then it stops. and some one does get hurt. and im sure your father doesn't mean any thing bad when he tells you to work out. and if your less the 200 pounds. your fine!!! i would most deff. sit down and talk to your mother and father at once when your brother and no one else i around and have a conversation and just let them know how you feel when they do this stuff and dont jus say "it annoys me when you treat __(your brothers nam) better then me' say " i don't think it is rite when you treat __ better then me like the other day when you were just bragging about how good he is in golf" well i think this should help. come back if you need anything else! and keep me posted!
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