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hey im 15/m/cali (turnin 16 in a month)
i haved like this girl for about 2 years. the first 6 months i told her, and the day i told her she didn't know wat to say. i ended up telling her i was just 'valuing' our friendship and i told her dat i really didn't like her. its the 2nd year now and i am really beginning to like her. the big problem is she has a b/f. her b/f got wit her 11/24/04, and he is my best friend. of course, he asked me b4 if he could ask her out, n i said i didn't have feelings for her becuase i didn't want chaos to happen again. Now i really am beginnnig to like her. we talk online every night. sometimes we talk till 3 or 4 AM on da phone when shes not talking to her b/f. she always asks me for help on hw (cuz im a smarty pants :p) and i help her out. today, it was raining and we were walking from class to lunch n her class n right next to mine. i always wait for her, and a few of my other friends. the classes were outside and it was raining. so as she got out we talked a bit and then we started to walk. she hooked her arm around mine and we started to walk in da rain to lunch down to a place where i usually hang out. she usually is really nice to me and i dont know wat i should do. I really like her, but i dont wanna mess up anything between her and my best frend. im just really sad lately, although whenver she's around i cheer up n we always talk. (sorry this is long) i dont know wat to do.... theres a lot more stuff i chose to leave out. but yea... plz help me!
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Don't worry about the length. The more detailed, the better, in my opinion.
Well, you do realize you can still tell her what's on your mind without messing stuff up between her and your friend, right? If it gets messed up, it's her choice. If I were in your situation I think I would talk to her and tell her what's going on in my head. I'd tell her that while I said I simply valued the friendship, the truth was I really did kind of like her. Let her know, though, that you don't want to destroy the friendship over affection issues. If she doesn't know what to say, tell her she doesn't have to say anything, and that you just wanted her to know what was going on in your head.
That is, of course, if you want to tell her. You don't have to, but it sounds to me like you're regretting keeping the fact that you like her a secret. So just talk to her. You two sound like really good friends, and I don't see why she wouldn't be willing to listen.
As to leaving stuff out, if this wasn't helpful, know that I am a very nonjudgmental girl, and I've heard pretty much everything. Lol. If you think telling me what you left out would help me give you better advice, don't worry about me telling anyone. ^_^
At any rate, I hope this was helpful on some level...-Siren =)
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