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Ok there is this guy that I am friends with, and I found out that he likes me. Good right? No you see I am friends with his ex and she says she still loves him. he never talks to her or anything. he says that she couldn't handle just being friends and that he only treats her like that because she acts like that. I don't want him to treat me like that if we were to go out and break up, he says that he wouldn't,but I don't know if I believe him. And there is one more thing I have a boyfriend. we don't go to the same school and I was thinking about dumping him anyway,but I just dont know what to do. So should I dump my boyfriend for my friend?
Sorry about the length, and I'll rate anyone who answers. Thanks.
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wow,lets start with your still boyfriend if you were thinking about dumping him without the other guy in the picture then i think it is a good idea.
Now for the guyif you are really into him tell him you need to be able to trust him so make your first date the rating on weither or not you really think he is good enough for you now rember this its hard for a to get inbetween to friends but that friend should be ok with your decision and help you out if he does what he did to her. The basic thing is that you dont know what he will do so you gotto learn to trust or leave him alone. Tell mee what happens and good luck!!
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Hi!:) Wow, this is a toughy... i went through something very very similar between one of my best guy friends and one of my girl friends. Honestly i think your best bet is to just forget it. I know that it sucks, but i tried it out and it did nothing but ruin mine and my best guy friend's relationship we don't even talk anymore and it just crushes me. It's been abouta year and i still can't stand the fact that i gave in and that we don't talk anymore. i honestly get upset all the time. It just didn't work out being such good friends and then trying ot make it more. Also you don't want to jeopardize your friendship with your girl friend. Girls should be your top priority even if you really like a guy, chicks before dicks right!! ;) Yeah i learned that the hard way, but me and my friend got through it, not that i can say the same for my guy friend and I. I think that it will cause you way too much drama and pain then it is worth. If you're happy with how things are going wtih your friends right now don't risk messing everythin up over something that can be potentially worthless. That is my best answer from personal experience so i hope that it helped!
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He likes you.. but do you like him?
I dont think that it would be a good idea to go out with your friend just yet, if you are friends with his ex..and if she isnt quite over him. If you really want to go out with him then you should wait a little while to let her feelings change, let her move on; you know?
You shouldnt give up on your boyfriend too easily also if you still really like him. If you dont have feelings for him, because like you said you were going to break up with him anyway, then i mean.. dont lead him on.
Sometimes long distance relationships are good, you dont get to see him all the time but when you do.. it makes it ten times better. Theres also disatvantages of long distance relationships, like the situation you have now. Imagine yourself in your boyfriends shoes, what if some girl liked him? and he was going to dump you for her?
(Even if you dont live that far away, schools are some distance--through the weeks)
Manda
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