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hmm hey steven, im with someone and i thought before that i had feelings for some guy but it turns out i was just interested in how he was i wanted to learn more about him and i would like to tell him that i dont like him, and i also want for other guys to stop complimenting me and telling me about my looks, i really cant stand when a guy is like oh yeah you rack blah blah... what should I do?
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okay, guys complimenting you, you're never going to get away from it, if you're beautiful, you're beautiful, and people are going to let you know...if anyone says you have a nice rack, they're an asshole. that's completely against everything that I personally stand for...you do have to take into account though, that when a person first sees you, it's looks they see. it's horrible i know, but that's what they see until they get to know you. so until these people get to know your personality, it's probably going to just be looks that they're commenting on. I'm sorry, but that's the way it goes. It's your fault for being pretty. lol, anyways, umm...i didn't exactly understand the first part of the question, but here goes nothing. okay, so you're with guy 1 right now, and you thought you had feelings for guy 2...or...you're with guy 1, and you thought you had feelings for guy 1, but actually you just wanted to get to know him. it's one of the two, or else I'm an idiot...so i guess i have to cover both. lets start with being with guy 1, and not liking him. Okay, so you just wanted to get to know the guy, no harm in that, but it turns out you don't like him, okay, tell him. you have to communicate, it's the basis of everything, that's why humans are smarter then dogs. you should tell him that you just wanted to get to know him better, and that you got caught up in the excitement of it all, and that you really just want to be friends. it's hard to tell someone, but it should come out the best that way. now, if you're with guy 1, and you thought you liked a guy 2, then you have to sent the message to guy 2 that you're happy with guy 1, and stop leading him on(if you were) it's torture to do that.
hope this helps,
~Stevo.
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