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What's uo with her.......might be long..sorry!
First off..I am gay. I just moved to this city about 6 months ago. about a month ago..I met a girl and she is everything that i've been looking for. we talk all the time, and really hit it off..like really. (We met at a party were she was drunk and we kissed..big time kissed) But the thing is..shes not gay (i think otherwise) But her boyfriend is the one that introduced me to a lot of people that i know around here. a few days ago she told me that she couldn't be around me because she "was going to make certain that nothing happened between us". But if shes not gay like she says why is she concerned that something is going to happen. Thats the part that makes me think that she doesn't know what she wants. Ever since I met her..i've been trying to understand her. Is she gay or bi, and just worried about what people might think or was that simply a drunken kiss? any thoughts?
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Well we can definitely cancel out that she is a lesbian because if she was then she wouldn't have a boyfriend. I think she is bi curious, and since she was drunk she took the time to let loose and experiment. The fact that she suddenly cut you off makes me think she kinda liked what happened between the two of you but is ignoring it because she is worried of what people think. If I were you I'd ask her what that whole kiss that night was all about, if she says it was nothing or a mistake, then just leave at that. Don't waste your time on someone who wants to play mind games.
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Ya Okay ummm.. it's hard to tell. since she was drunk she probably didn't know what she was doing.... all girls have feelings for another girl once in their life..... right now I don't have a problems with girls either but I'm sure I will get out of that stage. Girls are confusing... they don't know what they want... you never know.. girls also like to show off maybe she thought it was cool becasue thats what the guys like..... Then.. maybe she does have a little bit of feelings for you and doesn't want to admit it because she's afraid of what people might think... I don't know what to say babe... talk to her.. tell her how you feel
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