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Question Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 5:34 pm

me and my ex went out for almost 9 months...he asked me out at the end of the school year and all summer long we never even saw each other..all we did was talk on the phone and he was always out with his friends partying and stuff and then school came and yeah things were great but it always seemed like i loved him more or i wanted to talk on the phone with him more than he wanted to talk to me...and like sometimes at school he would say we are definately hanging out this weekend..well the weekend would come and most of the time he would never call to say he was coming over so he practically ditched me...well i mean he wasnt that shitty but when we were together everything was so perfect and all our problems went away..and then when the 6th month came that we were going out is when we first actually started to do things with each other and have sex..and we argued over the stupidest stuff all the time and we would get over it..like it was an every day thing.. we would argue but we would talk about it and everything would be okay..and then all semester i was at home because i was grounded and i couldnt go anywhere but my parents let him come stay the night with me and stuff..yeah he did come over and hang out but it seemed like he liked his friends more than me..well he broke up with me 2 days after my birthday because he didnt want a girlfriend where we had sex everything would be okay and then we would fight again...he told me i could still share his locker with him and he still talks to me and flirts with me and i really like him and want to be with him again..and ill ask him if i get another chance but he always avoids that subject..but i know he still likes me because we talked on the phone one night and he was crying cause he missed me..and he wouldnt still be talking to me if he didnt like me, right? well what i wanna know is if you think he was just using me..cause i have to admit that he didnt give me the attention that i needed so i did throw myself at him and made myself to available..like no matter how shitty he treated me i would always come back to him...do you think he wants to get back together or what? im so confused cause for one i think he broke up with me for another reason and hes just not telling me..or sometimes i think he was just using me...he broke up with me for the stupidest reason..but he still acts like he likes me? i dont understand

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 8:54 pm:
Me and my boyfriend Nathan had like 2 week war of fighting. I am not kidding. It sucked. Everybody that heard us fight was like wow.. they are defintly breaking up. This was in sept. we even fought the before my birthday and after my birthday.. it was bad! I talked to him about and said i was extremely sick of this. He ditched me twice in 2 days.. that really blew my cover over. He told me next week we would completely start over and he would make it the best week ever for me. However it was better but was the best week. If he didn't like you that doesnt mean he wouldnt talk to you. He could still want to be friends and maybe have something later on in the future. You really got to let things cool down maybe he felt like you always wanted him around and he wanted his space. He may be a flirty kind of guy to.. its possible that he was using but i dont think a guy would use someone for 6 months or longer. Unless he was cheating on you then i would say yeah.. he was using you-trix

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