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ex/friend trouble
i was going out with this guy for like a month and a half, one day he breaks up with me before school starts. second block my best freind/his best freind tells me she likes him and ask me if it would be ok if they went out. i sad yes and she said she wouldn't ask him out, an hour later i find out they are going out. I'm trying to be friends with them but it's difficult because he like wont really talk to me unless i talk to him (he is really outgoing and it's not like him) and now megan is getting mad at me cause people are aparently being mean to her. i sad i was sorry for that to both of them but neither of them are really talk to me anymore, i just don't know how to handle cause i havn't been handling it very well. And megan does know what i'm going through cause the same thing happend to her the only difference is that she and everyone else saw it coming to her but not me i also talked to her about it, she said she was sorry and she knew what i was going through but she hasn' done anything to really make me feel better but say she was sorry. then keith did the same thing in an e-mail, neither of them will talk aobut it to my face
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let me make sure i understand this correctly. keith-your ex bf is now dating megan-your best friend, and neither of them are talking to you anymore? it seems to me that you just need to talk to them to their faces-first alone with megan then keith, and then talk to them together, because there seems to be some sort of misunderstanding. the way you put it it doesn't seem like you ever got mad at either of them or got into a fight, so it seems like there's no reason for either of them to be mad at you. you told megan she could go out with keith, so u can't be mad at her for that. just talk to them and tell them that you don't understand why they won't talk to you and you dont' understand what you did to make them upset or not talk to you. tell them that you still want to be their friend, and you want to work things out. and people being mean to megan has nothing to do with you, unless you spread a rumor about her-in which case she has a right to be mad. just talk to them and try and get things straightend out-chances are it was a slight misunderstanding, and things will be fine. hope this helped and best of luck.
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Megan shouldn't be doing this to you. Now is a time to question her friendship. A true friend wouldn't lie to you and say she wouldn't go out with your ex, then do anyway. Also they would take action instead of just saying sorry. You should confront Megan and Keith about this one last time. If they don't have a good reaction, ignore them. Hopefully they will get the picture you aren't happy with what's going on. It's Megan's choice if she wants to be a good friend to you or choose Keith over you.
♥ lAuRa
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