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should i do it
Okay so I am the same person that asked about calling one of my old staff members from a mental institution at home. I decided to send her a christmas card and i called her at work tonight to find out if she got it and she said yes. I asked her if she minded me mailing it to her house and she said no. So i was wondering if i shouldnt call her at home tomorrow and find out if there is some way i can see her because she only lives like a mile away. I have walked past her house several times and i know that she took an oath that stated that if she saw a patient outside of the hospital the only way she could talk to them would be if they approached her. so if i was thinking that maybe i should have her go outside and maybe "bump into her". Do you think I should do this, I mean I really really really miss her and she is such a big influence in my life right now and she is the only reason that I have not killed myself! She has made me realize that I can be a great person if I try and work hard at it? What should I do?
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If u really want to see if shes ok, why dont you set a friendly time so both of you could go to the mall and shop or just discuse this over a friendly diner. Its no shame if u walk to her door and surprise her...it would actually be nice of you!
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CALL HER!Tell her what you are telling us about how much she influences you!Maybe you guys can grab a cup of coffee!hope i helped xoxo nicole
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Yes you should call her! Tell her how much you appreciated her help. Maybe ya'll could go out to lunch and catch up on what's been going on since you left the institution. Just be careful not to bug her. It's easy to anoy someone when you're just trying to say thank-you. Hope I helped! ~Brit
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I would call her up and ask her if she would mind getting together at a time that is convenient for both of you for a cup of coffee or a bite to eat. I would make it a neutral place for the first get together because, like being on a first date, public places seem to lessen the tension a bit and encourage more of a conversation rather than being at her home where she will have to answer the door, answer the phone or clean up before you arrive. Let her be the one to invite you to her home or if the right moment in the conversation pops up, ask her if she would mind getting together with you again. I am sure that if you are open, honest and relaxed everything should work out fine. Best Wishes!
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