say you had a good friend who you liked but didnt want to get into her because you thought they'd just end up hurting you. everytime the friend seems to like you and be interested, its only because they seem to be jealous or not getting enough attention. this girl im into seems so perfect but only seems into me when she wants to. i want to try giving my feelings to her so bad because i do want her, but i feel she'll just hurt me and that her feelings for me aren't as genuine or constant as they should if a relationship were to occur. help me tay! -trl
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? taycarmody23 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 3:21 am: well, honestly it's either one of two things...
1)she just doesn't like you (aka the fickleness) and she just wants the attention from you to make herself feel important... and loved..
or
2) she may have feelings for you, or maybe the timing isn't right...but b/c you've never told her how you feel- she doesn't want to come off 'needy' and is playing games to get you to spill.
both are VERY common!!!!
really what you need to do 'trl' is tell the girl. worrying ab it will only hurt yourself.It's better to know the truth no matter what the consequence. If you need more advice ab what to say, or so on, hit me back. I'm always here!!! :-D
Hope I helped!!!
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