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okay well im in a tough situation. my friend or well i thought she was my friend. well we have been friends for like three years and i thought we were really good friends. and this year has had its ups and downs and now we are in a fight for like a few weeks now. and im like just so upset bc i thought we were good friends and now it seems like she hates me. i mean all the other arguments we've had i always was the one to take the first step and resolve it but im just tired of that. and i mean now that shes not talkiing to me it's like our friendship meant nothing to her and it hurts and i don't know what to do. i know it was part my fault but i just want out friendship back but ddon't think it will happen
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Well, do you two still havea teh same friends? If so then do this whole group thing where all of your friends and you go to the movies... and then you would assume that one of the other friends would invite her. You would end up having lots of fun, making new inside jokes, and one of you would be like, "I'm sorry". Truly, maybe she is embarassed to say something, maybe she knows since you've made the 1st move before you would do it again. Was it a huge fight? Are there any possibilities of the friendship coming back? If not then don't be mean to her, if she says something mean to you just ignore it, don't sink down to her level. Just stick with whatever other friends you have. Otherwise you can tell her that you're sorry, if she forgives you...good, if she doesn't, then she isn't worth your time. I'm sorry I'm not of much help. I literally just woke up and I'm REALLY tired. Hope everything goes well with you and your 'friend'. OOOh, I just got a good idea... it's holiday time riiight? Make a scrapbook of pictures of fun times the two of you (and more people?) have had together. Or just get a picture book of pictures with the two of you and be like, "I thought you might want it" Then maybe she'll be like "yeah right" or something, but she'll take it home, look through it, 'cry' and apologize. Sorry if it's not too good of an idea, I mean where I am it's 7:47a.m. and for some reason I woke up and can't get back to sleep. Well, later, happy holidays! Hope everything works out for you and your 'friend'.
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