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Hey people...Happy Holidays...hopefully you guys aren't having a confusing holiday like me lol. Well I am going out with this kid and he's a year older than me and let's just call him Kevin. Well Kevin told some of my friends that he liked me and they kind of made me go out with him. I didn't really know him and I still don't at the moment. So I really don't like him because I barely know the kid, I'm not good at learning to go out with him either. We've been going out for about a week now and it's just driving me crazy. He calls me all the time and is sooo clingy! He bought me a diamond promise ring for christmas and OMG he shouldn't have done it. Obviously I don't like him as much as he likes me. Well on New Years I want to go to my best friend's party (it's a guy) but the thing is they don't get along that well. I don't want to lead Kevin on either but I don't want to have to tell him I don't like him that much because I do NOT want to hurt him. I need to like break it off and I don't know what to say!!!!! Does anyone know what to say to him? Besides I don't like you or besides being mean to him. I mean I definitely don't want to hurt him but that means I might just have to make something up to tell him I can't have a boyfriend right now! Anyone have any ideas?
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You should say something like, "My mom doesn't want me dating anyone right now. Sorry. Can we still be friends?" Something like that. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy Holidays!
~*Erin*~
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ok well first off tell him how you feel. tell him you need more time to get to know him and learn more about him. dont jsut say it in like seconds. take time and tell him so hell understand that you dont know him much. dont stop talking to him that will hurt him more than you think. just say something like that tho
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Try telling Kevin that you really dont know him that well and you'd rather be friends before having a relationship. Just tell him your not sure about your feelings and not sure if your ready for a boyfriend yet. You'd still would like to be friends and see how things go.You dont want to see him in a relationship when both people dont feel the same way , when there could be someone else out there for him.Hope i helped and you have a Happy Holiday.
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omg hunnie a diamond ring and you guys have been going out for only a weekish.. wow he really likes you i guess! my bf hasn't bought me like anything really and weve been together for over a year.. but anyways.. just talk to him on the phone be like i think we should get to know eachother better. just be really nice about it and show that you care about your friendship more.. ive hoped ive helped ya out! x0
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