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So I have this friend lets call her "Sara". Sara Has this friend lets call her "Susy" See Sara tells me all these things that are not true. Me and Susy are Bff and Sara is trying to get in our way. She says things like susy is mad at you and she isn't. Now I don't know how to Tell Sara what she is doing to our friendship. NOW it seems like I hate susy, I don't though. I don't know what to do It seems to be getting worse. HELP>>>>
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Well " Lisa" I wish I could tell you that things will get better if you leave them alone, but the fact is, that is not how life works. You have to take action. " Sara" knows that what she is doing is wrong, the question is why is she doing it? Chances are that " Sara" is jealous of yours and " Susy's " friendship and there are even bigger chances that " Sara" and "Susy" used to be good friends. What you need to do is talk to " Susy" and tell her that you feel like " Sara" is trying to get the way of your friendship. Tell her that you want to be friends with her and that you are not mad at her. Then you need to go talk to " Susy" . You tell her that you do not appreciate her rumors because they are getting in the way of your friendship. Chances are she will get embarassed and she may stop. That is when you make plans for you " Sara"
and "Susy" chances are, all " Sara" needs is a friend.
I hope this helps!!
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