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jelousy


Question Posted Tuesday December 14 2004, 3:00 pm

I joined this modeling thing and my friends said before i left that i would act snotty and perfect when i come back. Finally a couple of weeks later i came back and i was even seeing or acting very carefully to try not to act snotty or perfect. But they told me i was anyways. I even lost my best friend! They really started hating me! Now they're trying to start fights with me and everything. I even went to a different school thats not far away from my hometown and they're still bothering me! How can i make them stop!

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advice~gurl answered Monday December 20 2004, 8:15 pm:
It sounds to me that they were already jealous of you when you told them and they were just looking for a fight. They probably couldn't find anything to hate you about so just made it up.
I really do think talking to them would be the best bet. Maybe including their parents, like going to their house and talking to them individual with their parents present. That just might help or make it worse.....Okay....Here is what I would do, If they came up to me again and tried to start fighting I would say "Look,I am me and sence I started modeling you guys have been jealous. You claimed I would come back like a snot well I didn't and you know that. You don't like me being a model too damn bad but its what I like to do. If you can't handle your feelings like a normal human being than go somewhere else and bitch but leave me alone. I haven't done anything to you so quit it alright. If one of you became a model I would stand by you and not be jealous. So lets just live our own lives and not bother eachother. K?"
Now I know you may not use the exact phrasing that I do but thats what I would say, You can go from there.

Luck to you.
AG

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