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He's the boy everyone knows.... and I'm the girl caught up i
I'm 16 years old.. and like every girl.. my hearts in a jam
So of course theres a boy involved, not just any boy... the one at school that everyone knows. The hot football, homecoming court senior guy that every girl has to look twice at. And I'm the girl that is "one of the guys" nothing more nothing less.
He's in my class and we have hung out a couple times... and then there have been 2 times where he has come over just me and him... I'm a virgin, and he's not... and a little on the skanky side
Yea, we've kissed... and he has wanted to have sex with me and i want to with him but i said no both times. He still asks me and i always find some way to say no
Hard to get is a fun thing for me so i always tell him I hate him and he couldnt have me if he tried, how hes wrapped around my finger... and it seems to be working cuz he does what all boys do.. call you some dumb names.. he calls me "over achiever" and just the way he does stuff makes me think he likes me... and i tell my friend jessica all the stuff he says and she is sure he likes me...
but when people talk about him they say things like hes easy and gets with everyone... I just dont know what to do.. I love that we have our time together but i kinda want him to myself, but i dont think thats possible... I'm not the kind of girl who gets completely attatched and gets all puppy-love-writes-his-last-name-with-my-first type of girl...
should I give into what i want without being with him? Do you think he has ANY attraction towards me?
Thank you for listening to my story
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Yes, it sounds like he likes you. Through what you've described, I think he's the sort of guy who likes to flirt and be with all the girls. If you want to have sex with him to show him you're different than the other girls, I don't think you should. If he's not a virgin, I assume sex is something he does for pleasure, not because he really truly cares about someone. Sex is something special you should save for when you're married with the love of your life. If you want to show you like him, I suggest doing it in another way. Keep playing hard to get and request more time hanging out with him. Flirt and show your affection. Believe me, sex is not the way to get him. I've heard so many sad stories of girls thinking a guy would love them after having sex, but he never again called them. I'm not saying that's going to happen to you, but I really hope you save sex for a better time in your life. Your only 16, you've got your whole life ahead of you! If you keep spending time with him, maybe he'll see you as something more than "one of the guys." Just don't give into having sex with him because sooner or later regret will catch up with you. I wish you the best of luck with him, and I hope you become his one and only. =)
-laura-
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