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still hurt by him...
Okay. so theres this guy that i like(d) whos a year older than me. i dont really know him but my friends have introduced me to him before and ive just seen him around school and hes really cute n funny.
well i kinda got the feeling that he might have liked me bc if i would see him walking down the hall he'd always look over at me or kinda try and find me i think-- but never came up and talked to me. well i told one of my friends i liked him so they told him and i didnt think it would go farther than that but he said he liked me too ((or he thought i was pretty)) and my friend asked if he would ever go out with me and he said he would think about it...well a couple of weeks later after a lot of aggony and i still never really did talk to him he said he wouldnt ask me out bc he didnt know me well enough [and he told my friend that] soo yeah then another one of my friends started to talk to him about a month later and he said he still liked me but he wasnt going to ask me out bc I WOULDNT GO UP AND TALK TO HIM. yeah i know i kinda started the whole thing but arent guys kinda suppose to come up and talk to the girl or is that just me?? :\ im really confused and i feel kinda stupid...please help
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Well, I'm with you on that the guy should go talk to you, but if he wont make the first move, you need to go up to him. Try to be friends with him first, so he'll get to know you. Hope i helped!
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Just go up to him now :) confront him. or get his number an call him or his screen name or something, write him notes, ask him to hang out, just do SOMETHING that shows effort in talking to him, sure, itll feel weird but once you break the ice, itll go SOOOOO much better for the both of you, Youll have each other :) just be funny. use one of the cheeziest lines...AKA my favorite lol "Hot Penguin" then they say "what??!" and you go "Oh nothing, just trying to break the ice" , man gotta love that one :) JUST BE YOU AND DONT BE AFRAID!!! GOOD LUCK BABE!!
-Jenn
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--ok first thing to learn--guys are not all the same--second thing to learn--they will blame everything they can on you--its not awlays ur fault--and third thing to learn-NO! guys dont have to be the one who comes up and talks to you-go up there-dont be shy-dont chase him aways but atleast let him kno you wanna be friends-start talking to him-it doesnt have to be about you liking him-just-well anything--
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You should just say hi to him once when you pass by him in the hall. THat shows that you used some effort and now he has to use some effort to talk to him. I think he needs to come talk to you, but saying hi won't hurt. It's a start.
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