Thers this guy at school that everyone is saying i like. (wich isnt competely false, hes one of my really good friends)But everyone is telling him that i like him and telling me that he likes me. Normally i wouldnt really care if someone liked me but this time i do because he is such a good friend of mine. When i talk to him i feel awkard because i cant get the fact that we may like each other off my mind, and after i finish talking to him my classmates ask me if i was askin him to go out with me. But mostly im afraid that if we do break up we'll end up like my best friend and her boyfriend, they broke up and now never talk to each other. What should i do, i want to keep hanging out with this guy but i dont want either of us to have to feel awkard about it? I am a thirteen year old girl.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? txsunbabe91 answered Thursday December 9 2004, 10:10 pm: hey, for you this is a really tough decision to make. For love, or friendship. Ive been in your situation and unfortunatley enough it turned out like your friends. We dated for 4 and a half months and then i broke up with him, he had been one of my really good friends. We dont tak as much as we used too, but were not enemies. A strong friendship will withstand the highest winds and the hardest rains, yet a weak love can be devastated by one single tear. I think, just my opinion, is that you should wait it out see how much you like him next week. And besides your thriteen, if its really meant to be and you stay best friend then you can figure it out later when you know better and you realize how you feel exactly. Crushes will always come and go and believe me with a male best friend that crush can come very often of course you'll be attracted to them because they are your comfort zone your equal, and your rock to keep ya steady and together. It may be hard but as much as you think you like him wiat it out, because if you were to break up who would you need most... I believe that would be your best friend.
I hope this helps in some way all my luck to you, Txsunbabe91 [ txsunbabe91's advice column | Ask txsunbabe91 A Question ]
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