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who should i believe?


Question Posted Thursday December 2 2004, 7:41 pm

Ok, before I get to my problem I'm going to kind of explain the situation so you get it. So at my high school we have to share lockers with one person because there’s like 2700 people and there are not enough lockers. I am on the cheer team and so is my locker partner, I’ll call her Sarah. And there is this other girl that is on the cheer team, we’ll call her Molly, her locker is upstairs and all her classes are downstairs, so she started keeping her stuff in our locker. Now I don’t have a problem with her being there but were not the best of friends. Anyways, I got a bunch of pictures of hott guys in magazines from my house and put them in the locker. Sarah and Molly really liked this one picture of Chad Michael Murray.

Ok so at cheer practice this other girl comes up to me, I’ll call her Kelly, and she asks me what my locker com was. I asked her why and she said because Sarah and Molly hid your poster of Chad and they’re gonna take it. I said ok well I'm not going to give it to you so tell me where it is. And they said they would just go with me. So I go to my locker and sure enough, the posters gone. So we start going through everything to try and find it. We found it taped underneath one of the shelves. So I just took all the posters out and threw them away so then they can’t have any of them. Then Kelly starts going through this whole explanation. She said, Molly came up to me today and was like were gonna take Kylies poster of Chad. And Kelly said she asked her why and Molly said because she wanted it. My problem with her story is that why would they take the poster if they can see it every day in the locker?

So, after cheer practice I went up to Molly and I asked her why she wanted my poster so bad that she thought she needed to steal it. She said what the heck and was telling me that it wasn’t even her that was trying to steal it. She said that Kelly was with her at the locker while she was getting stuff out and Kelly was like can I have that poster and she told her no so Kelly tried to grab it but Molly closed the locker. Molly said Sarah told Kelly our locker com and she had it in her planner. So she said that’s why they hid it so that if Kelly tried to take it she couldn’t find it. Now my problem with this story is that if Kelly had the com already then why would she come to me and ask for it?

I know that I sound like a complete idiot getting all worked up over a stupid poster that I got out of a magazine but its not about the poster it’s the fact that they were gonna take it without asking me. Like really if they had just asked I would have given it to them because I really don’t care. But they didn’t so I'm mad.

So you see I'm kind of getting the same story from both people but the names are just changed. I really can’t base it on who I trust more because Molly tends to be very fake (like I’ve seen her go up to someone and be like oh hey I love your shirt and then she’ll turn around and be like what the heck is she wearing???) and I've caught Kelly in a lie before. My question to anyone who decides to read this whole thing (I'm really sorry it’s so long) is who should I believe??


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xoxlilshortyxox answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 3:51 pm:
Don't believe any of them and tell Molly to get her stuff out of your locker. Tell her she has her own locker. If she wants her stuff in your and Sarah's locker she should respect you.

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hErEtoheLp answered Friday December 3 2004, 6:06 pm:
It wouldn't matter. The point is that they both kknew about it and did nothing to stop it, on both sides. Nor did they even bother to tell you for that matter. What you should do is simply tell them the next time something of her's is missing that they'll have to find another locker to put their stuff in. Of course they'll still have your combo which could be bad, but if they can't put their stuff in there, then that should leave them with a small delimma. Ohh well if you have to continue to share lockers with Kelly, then you both should just kick "Molly" out if something like that happens again. IF by chance something gets taken from your locker again, then I would start to suspect your friend Kelly. Either way they both have no right to take your stuff, and you should tell them that you don't want it to happen again or Someone's getting kiked out. That someone being Molly. K, I hope this made sense, It was kinda difficult for me to type it than it was to think it up in my head.

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CoKe_IzZlE answered Friday December 3 2004, 4:55 pm:
no one,forget about them.neither desereve the right for you to believe thme.hope i helped
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