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O,Gee Again Thanx........
Okay so me and my ex,Adam, broke up. But when i was talking to him he said he wasn't ready even though he's the one who broke it off. He started to suposely work his "charm",lol, and i am not over him, but i went through soooo much pain after the break up. I mean it felt like a peice of my heart fell off and burnt inside of me. I really need sum one to talk to!
Signed,
Helpless
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One of my friends once said 'if he can hurt ya- he aint worth it'
but i sadly haven't followed that advice but its true all the same. He did hurt you- what was he trying to do by breaking up with you?? Make you jealous. Sounds like bullshit to me. He doesn't know what he wants- so he's doing it then not being sure about it. Which means his decisions could hurt you so easily. I think if you do like him and he likes you then you should take a break from it. See what its like for you to be separated from you. See how he likes it and see how you like it. That way instead of being unsure you know the ramifications of both actions and you can choose which one you like better.
Generally you shouldn't get back with you ex- this is because there is a reason you broke up, and thats not going to go away (well it might but generally it doesn't). So take a break from it all and see how you like it- see if its worth giving it another try.
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The best thing to do is to move on and not worry about him. If you keep pining for him and taking him back whenever he wants, he will just take you for granted.
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