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someone likes me
ok well there is this guy named "bob" and well bob told me that he liked me but before he told me that he couldn't have a girlfriend cuz he's not allowed. anywayz he siad he liked me and then told 2 of my friends that he likes me so now 2 of my friends know and they're saying "o how cute and that's really weird he's your friend and he likes you i wouldn't know how to act" well i started thinking i don't know how to act around him and i really need help!! so can you please tell me if i should ignore bob or just act the way i did or just say hi sometimes but don't be as nice as i was so that he doesn't think i like him? please help i don't know how to act anyway helps!
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Hi Sweetie,
No don't ignore him! Besides being plain mean it can get you in trouble. Who knows... he may be the ressentful bitter type and spread rumors about you... or you may just loose a perfectly good friend... either way ignoring him would ake you seem like a bad person. Just... be his friend. It may be weird for you... it may even be weird for him... Don't be too close to him anymore. Give him space. Space to get over his crush and meet new friends and space to see that you have your own life... eventually you'll like some who won't be him (possibly already do) and you may go out with that guy. And if you do its OK.
When you have guy friends its normal for one of them to have a cursh on you for a while... then he gets over it... and your other guy friend develops a crush. Same thing with guys who have a lot of girl friends.
Remember: BE CAREFUL WHAT SIGNALS YOU'RE SENDING HIM. You want to let him know you want to be friends (even if you don't want to be... it's always good to let people know you have nothing against them). You DON'T want to let him think that there's a mear-future possibility with a lot of potential between you two.
My best wishes! Hope things turn out great. ~Blessed Be...
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Act normal. Why would you ignore him?! Hes your friend isint he? Just because he likes you wont change anything..just have fun and talk to him. If you ignore him you'll make him feel bad...just tell him you dont like him like that, and that you like him as a friend.
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