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I am so fucking pissed off. This morning I found out my "mom" has been lying to me my whole life. I found out that she has been married before and got divorced. I also now found out that my sister and I do not have the same dad. I always thought she did. I swear she fucking lied to me. Thats not fine. My mom told my sister she was going to tell me all of this when I was 9 years old..I'm 14 getting ready to turn 15. What do I do? I can't ask her about it. She doesnt know taht I know. I just dont know, my own fucking mother lied to me.
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well i would talk to your sister about it ask her why she didnt tell you. your mother probably didnt want you to no her past, most mother wont. my friends dad didnt tell her that he had a wife and got a divorce before she was born. some how she found out and was really mad. she got through it and her dad told her everything that went on before she was born. her dad said that he didnt want to tell her because he didnt like his past and wanted her to live a better live with a mother, father and her. he didnt want her to have a sept-mother that treated her badly. im sure that you and your mother will work things out. you and your sister talk to your mom together and ask why she didnt tell you about it in the first place. im sure you guys will work it out. best of luck ~*L*~
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okay, even though this has never happened to me, i know how you feel, and dont get mad that i say that.
first take a couple days and just relax. really sit down and think maybe why your mother hasnt told you the truth. there could be a really good reason. no, its not right to live a lie, but she may have just made a wrong choice in not telling you.
your right, its not fine that she's kept this from you. but i also think that maybe 9 is too young. of course, 14 isnt a very good time for teenagers to find out stuff like that.
so take a few days, let off some steam. dont just jump on your mom with a lot of questions. it could be very hard for her. maybe there was something wrong with her first husband and she doesnt want to live in the past. when you feel your not going to straight out yell at her, sit her down and tell her what you've found out, and tell her, calmly, that your not happy that she hasnt told you herself, and you wished that you coulda heard it from her. both of you will feel better and i bet you'll find out some surprising things.
if you have any more questions, feel free to ask!
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