umm well let's see. im currently in marching band, but i don't play an instrument, i'm in the colorguard (twirling flags and such) other hobbies i have are cheerleading and dancing. in my spare time (which there isn't much of) i like talking to my friends on AIM and of course working on Quote-a-Licious.
Website: Quote-a-Licious
Gender: Female
Location: Jersey
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: katyx0x
MSN: blnkchik4@hotmail.com
Member Since: September 16, 2004
Answers: 25
Last Update: December 31, 2004
Visitors: 2264
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Hey Katy..my hair is always staticy no matter what.. i try dryer sheets..hair sprays..static guard..everything nothing seems to work..you have any tips to tame my static hair? (link)
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i have the same problem sometimes. i suggest trying a product from Bed Head its called Control Freak (its green). I'm guessing you wear your hair straight. control freak keeps it straight and for me it controls static. i can't gurantee it'll work if you've tried hair sprays and static guard or watver.. but its definetly worth a try. if that doesnt work, talk to your hairdresser and hopefully they can help you.
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Hey Katy, i lov dis site ennyways...i needa ask you something.....well me and my bf have been going out for like a few months and when i went bak to my old intermadtie to see my old mates, i saw this guy i used to like, well lets just say hes one of my best mates ive knowin for most of my life...and i think he still likes me, cos everyones says it looks like he dose.and i told my bf. and he went and asked my mate out. i think he was doing it because of what i told him, and he might lose me. but i love him sooo much and all i wanna know if he still likes me or not? how can i tell, he allways looks at me all the time when im not near him.(mate) and yea, i just need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!! tanks sooo much! (link)
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talk to him. ask him how he feels about you. if your too shy, then have a friend ask him.
as for your boyfriend, tell him that you love him and you don't want him to get jealous, and, if this is true, tell him that you want to be with him, and your just curious about the other guy.
if you'd rather do it the hard way, then here are some signs that he likes you:
-he stares at you (like you said)
-he talks/flirts with you constantly
-he always asks what your doing
-he's quiet when your around your boyfriend/talking about your boyfriend
-he asks you questions about your current relationship/past relationships
-he comes right out and says it :)
hope i helped!
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are u a lesbian? (link)
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uhh no lol. have any other questions?
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Hey Katy.. I usually dont ask for advice on these things i thought id give it a try considering you dont know me..
Im 16 and me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now ... were definitley serious and we love each other very much i dont even know if my question will make sense.. but is it ok to hang out without talking much you kno just watching tv and stuff (like you were married) i mean i dont find anything wrong with it but what do you think? I mean yea we talk but occasionally we dont.. lol i just like laying there together reminesing the time you know?
Thanks for ur time..
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there is def. nothing wrong with that. when my boyfriend and i hang out we just watch movies and tv and stuff to. its not like we have nothing to talk about, because we do talk occasionally, but we just like being in each other's prescence. as long as you and your boyfriend aren't having any problems, which it doesnt sound like you are, then im sure you guys are just like us.
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I've Been Dating This Kid For Almost A Year, But We Live In Different Towns, And Im Beginning To Get The Feeling That He Doesnt Like Me Anymore, How Do I Tell?? (link)
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well the easiest way would be to just straight out ask him. if he really likes you then he should want to make it work. a year is a long time, but don't let that fool you into thinking he does still likes you. im not saying that there is a reason why he wouldnt lol don't get me wrong but your best bet is to sit him down and talk about your relationship and talk about where its going. you'll feel a lot better once you guys talk, whether or not you decide to stay together
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Im 13 and im goin out wiv this boy but i like one of his mates. This other boy has got a girlfriend and lods of my mates like him as well i dont no wat to do help me please. (link)
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well if you definatley don't like your boyfriend as much as his friend, then i suggest breaking up with him because its not fair to him if your leading him on with no intention of a serious relationship.
but first, try to get to know the guys a bit better. you'd be surprised, you might end up liking your bf more afterall
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HeY kaTy..tHis site is bOmB!:D Well the thing is i have two best friends and a tonna other friends, even though i dont liek to classify..but ne way they alwyas get in to randomly stupid fights over nothing...n then when they are mad at eachother they complain to me, n it seems liek i am telling htem what they want to hear, instead of the truth, and then sometimes i go n tell the other friend what the other friends said about them, jsut to let thenm know that this was buggin the other person.....what should i do instead.......... (link)
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i know wat u mean. girls can be so dramatic. right now, i have two friends that im really close to that hate eachother. it drives me nuts when they talk about the other person because they know im friends with them and they know i dont want to hear it.
tell them if they're going to get in stupid fights, to not get you in the middle of it. if you don't like sending bad news or something the other person said, then dont, its not your problem.
definatley tell the truth though. unless its so horrible that it would be heartbreaking for you to tell them, the bad truth is better then the good lie. but instead of lieing, just dont tell them anything. because seriously, their problems aren't yours
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I am so fucking pissed off. This morning I found out my "mom" has been lying to me my whole life. I found out that she has been married before and got divorced. I also now found out that my sister and I do not have the same dad. I always thought she did. I swear she fucking lied to me. Thats not fine. My mom told my sister she was going to tell me all of this when I was 9 years old..I'm 14 getting ready to turn 15. What do I do? I can't ask her about it. She doesnt know taht I know. I just dont know, my own fucking mother lied to me. (link)
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okay, even though this has never happened to me, i know how you feel, and dont get mad that i say that.
first take a couple days and just relax. really sit down and think maybe why your mother hasnt told you the truth. there could be a really good reason. no, its not right to live a lie, but she may have just made a wrong choice in not telling you.
your right, its not fine that she's kept this from you. but i also think that maybe 9 is too young. of course, 14 isnt a very good time for teenagers to find out stuff like that.
so take a few days, let off some steam. dont just jump on your mom with a lot of questions. it could be very hard for her. maybe there was something wrong with her first husband and she doesnt want to live in the past. when you feel your not going to straight out yell at her, sit her down and tell her what you've found out, and tell her, calmly, that your not happy that she hasnt told you herself, and you wished that you coulda heard it from her. both of you will feel better and i bet you'll find out some surprising things.
if you have any more questions, feel free to ask!
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i reallly like this guy, but last night at the movies my friend told him. and now he wont talk to me..i guess hes a little shocked about it. but now, hes talking really bad about me and being really mean. this is making me really depressed. please, what should i do?! (link)
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some guys do that because yeah, they're shocked, but it also may mean he likes you. try sitting down alone with him and talking to him. ask him how he really feels about you, and if he doesnt like you like that, then i guess you guys will just be friends. but you never know, he may like you more than you think. so your best bet is to straight out talk to him!
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i neeed help!! There is this boy in my schoool he is really hot!!! All my friends like him we all said wee will never get in a fight over a boy
(girl power..lol) but this seemed to change my frined asked him out he said no.. then my other friend asked him out he said noo :( soo theres meee i had my friend ask
him if he liked me he said yea sould i go out with him or noo....but i cant cause i am not alloed... i would but i have a twin brother
:(!!!! and if he gets pissed off at me he will tell my dad what should i do??? (link)
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okay, well first of all, the whole protective brother thing is cute, but he really has no right to tell you who you can go out with and who you can't go out with.
i'd say ask him out. even if you made a pack with your friends to never get in a fight over a boy, they asked him out, didnt they? what if the guy had ended up saying yes to one of them?
just first talk to your friends. say you think that if you ask this guy out, he'll say yes. but you don't want it to hurt your friendship with them in any way. if there does become a big conflict and your friends say you hafta choose them or the guy, then really think hard about what you value more, friendship or a relationship.
if you have any more problems, please let me know!
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well,i dont think he hurts her...one reson being hes in 7th grade and shes in 8th and another hes like puney like a shrimp but anyways she does say that and every time they go thro this trusting thingie she says he has to choose and yeah like supposedly shes in 'love' with him and they have CONSIDERED sex but I talked her out of it anyways she wont break up wit him and i cant tell her parents cuz shes not supposed to date him and yeah
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okay well if he's not hurting her, the only reason that i can think of for him not trusting her is because he's kinda young. im not saying to young for her or anything, but the younger you are, the less trusting you tend to be. give it some time, and please just look out for him hurting her. tiny people can still be strong too.
another thing might be his home life. in homes that there isn't a whole lot of trust or communication going around, it tends to spread outside the family.
wat i would do is give it some time (like i said before) but just observe. and if your friend seems really unhappy, then try to convince her to break up with him.
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i no some one at school who burns them selves by useing a lighter ... but he does it all the time! On his arms theres all scabs nd bruises but he tells every one that he fell off his bike... WHAt should i do ?? (link)
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okay, interesting. try talking to him. find out if he does it because he's upset and depressed, or if he just does it for fun. if he says yes to the second one, ask him if he does any drugs.
either way, he needs help. first talk to him, and tell him that he needs help and both of you are gonna get it for him. dont just go off telling someone because that might make matters worse.
burning yourself can be extremely serious, its just as bad as cutting. he could be suffering bad burns and not even realizing it.
if he absolutely will not let you get him help by telling an adult, get him to a doctor at least. that way he can be treated, and after realizing that everyone just wants to help him, im sure he'll come around and seek further help.
NOTE: i wasn't trying to be funny with the drug reference at the top. i knew someone that used to get high all the time and used to burn herself just out of the pure stupidity that the drug she was taking gave to her.
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okay well my friend wanted to give her male friend a hug well cuz he just had a baby and she was proud he was handling it so well and being cutrious[sorry cant spell] she asked her boyfriend if she could give Casey[her friend] a hug and her bf[shane] said no cuz he thinks that Allie[my friend] likes casey b-cuz she used to and now she dont and besides that point there almost brother and sister but any ways i wrote her bf a note saying he should trust Allie more b-cuz she loves him alot and that if he dont trust her they dont have much of a realtionship and he got mad and he wont allow her to sit by me in the morning while we r waiting for school to start and she CHOSE to sit wit him and i dont think its fair for him to NOT trust her and to control her like that is it rite?
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okay, just so ya know, i had to read that many time until i finally understood lol.
no i don't think its right that her bf doesnt trust her. and no its not right that he controls her.
with the whole trust thing, i mean, that depends upon the person. some people can automatically trust someone, and thats how they get hurt emotionally and physically. with others, it takes time and patience for earning trust.
but that doesnt justify for his controling of her. if it were up to me, i'd guess that he's probably dangerous. i know girls who's bf's won't let them talk to any guy what so ever, even a male teacher. and if they do, it can eventually lead to him hurting her.
talk to your friend, try to convince her to break up with him, and tell her he might be dangerous and she deserves someone better, someone who can tust her a little more. because to me, trust is something NOT given to strangers and the like. but i think i'd have to trust the guy i like before going out with him.
if she tells you that she can't break up with him, but won't give you a reason why (or maybe she says "because i love him") its most likely that he might have already hurt her. if you keep asking her why she wont break up within, she'll tell you eventually.
and remember, dont hesitate to tell your parents, her parents, or any teachers IF you suspect him hurting her and you can prove it in some way.
if all that still doesnt answer your question, just ask me again :)
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hi! I have some friends that are boys-they are like 12 and I'm 14, Well I like looking at and playing with their thingies. It just started like last year that I really became interested in seeing them.I don't think of them as boyfriends just friends. I know if I was older I could get in trouble but at my age is this normal? Like they're soo cute!
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some girls just have a thing for younger guys, there's really nothing you can do about it. i say its totally normal as long as your not forcing them to do anything they dont wanna do :)
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i want to give my boyfriend a hand job but i dunno how.. =\ if you could give me any advice.. that would REALLY help! =) (link)
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there's really not that much to a hand job lol. its basically massaging his dick with your hand, but dont squeeze too hard! be gentle. sorry if thats not exactly wat your looking for! if its not, ask me again
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My friend was raped when she was 7 years old and she told me and her boyfriend over the internet and im not sure about this but i think her brother[the one who raped her,yes her brother raped her] got on to msn and read the recent history and tried to do it again. this is wat happend he asked her to watch a movie in his room and w.out thinking she said yeah sure so he pined her down to her bed and started kissing her and riped her shirt off but she got him off by kicking him in the balls and the bad thing is she wont tell anyone and as much as i try to get her to she wont should i tell someone for her or should i just stay out of it...
P.S can i ask for other advice things to cuz i have alot of questions but if u say no thats okay
Thanks,
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wat a lot of people dont realize is that rape is a serious issue. your friend has no right to feel violated and feel like she had to do something she didnt want to do. NOBODY deserves to feel like that. and especially if it was her brother, its not like he lives somewhere else she could avoid: he's always going to be there.
if i were you, i'd tell someone because she needs help. someone needs to do something about her brother, so why not you? you won't regret it, and in the end, your friend will thank you for it.
sweetie, you can ask as many questions as you'd like :)
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hey i neeeed help big time my friend cuts..... she told me not to tell anyone this has beeen going on for 2 years (i meet her this year at my new school).... i want her to stop but she keeps on cutting over a boy..... should i risk my friendship and tell someone to help her ooor should i just let it bee??? you can im me on tropicalstars247 thank u :)
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most likely, if a person tells you that they are cutting, it means they WANT you to tell somebody. even they might not know it, but if they really didnt want anyone to know, they wouldnt tell even their best friend.
i would say def. tell someone. she may hate you for it in the future, but you can save her from blood loss and even death.
dont tell her that your not gonna tell anyone. if she tells you "remember, dont tell anyone im cutting myself. do u promise?" dont say yeah sure, then go off and tell an adult. sit her down and tell her you are going to get her help whether she wants it or not, because she needs it.
people always use the excuse it gets ur mind off things to cut yourself. that the physical pain is worth it over the emotional pain, but its not. especially when its something over a boy, the scars on her wrist in the future are just going to remind her over and over what happened, and in the end the emotional pain will get worse.
so what i suggest you do is go and tell an adult. then make sure your friend knows that she needs help (try sitting down and talking to her) and that you both are going to get help for her. then you can go and get the adult you told (it can be a parent of yours, hers, a teacher, a counselor) and all 3 of you can talk. it depends on what kind of person she is, but hopefully your friend will thank you later for what you did. i hope i helped and if you have any more trouble, dont hesitate to ask.
NOTE: i know its this way in my school, and hopefully it is in yours: in my high school, all teachers are obligated to get help for anyone who needs it. if you tell a teacher, he/she won't say "oh well i havent seen the scars so i don't believe it" they take action right away. they could get fired if they dont. so its always good to go to your parent or the friend's parent, but teachers can help just as much
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Hey! your site is awesome! anyway, i have a little problem, me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile, and he always tells me he loves me and i love him too its just, like a week ago me and this other guy started talking and he really likes me and he wants to go out with me but i have my boyfriend, and my bf and i have just gotten over a breakup.. bc of an arguement i dont know if i should stick with my guy .. or try a new one.. help please!! =(
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well if you like this "new guy" and you can't see yourself with your boyfriend for the rest of your life, then go for dating someone new. like i said to someone else, its important to date around when your young. don't tie yourself to someone unless its really serious and you guys have future plans. i would say take a break from your current on/off boyfriend and go out with the other one.
and remember that love is a really strong love. now i cant say that you and your boyfriend dont love eachother, but sit down and really think about the word love. sometimes people just say is with no meaning. make sure you both mean "i love you" when you say it. hope i helped!
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on a much lighter note i luv tha site and what uve done with it hope evrythins workin out great..
now--> well i was really hung up on this guy tht i do luv 4 bout a year and now tht im startin to get ova him im not sure wat to do...ive ben single 4 7 months now and itz hard to c all my girl-friends havin boyfriends n stuff n i jus go bac n forth frum guys tht i have a 'crush' on n im not sure wat to do?....also alot of my friends have been having sex lately and i kno tht im too young -14- but then again i think about it and i wonder (( how much does you're virginity really mean?)) i could have had sex plenty of times if i wanted to but i chose not too but now im getting so close it scares me...wat to do??
please help-->advice is always great
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first of all, it doesnt matter how many time your friends have had sex, it soley depends on you.
and i can't answer the question 'how much does you're virginity really mean' because that depends on you also. if you havent had sex yet because your concerned about the meaning of virginity, then your most likely a person who wants to wait for the right guy. which there is nothing wrong with. im not saying you have to wait until you get married or anything, but just really take time to think about how you feel and just forget about any friends that have had sex because that will only push you into thinking you have to.
i suggest just dating around. explore your options. if a guy asks you out but you don't think its the kind of guy you'd normally date, go for it. you never know, sometimes opposites attract. and def. don't just go out and have sex if your still debating it, or just because your friends are doing it!
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ii jusz gotta buncha new clothes..n derr all lyk RLY loose..n ma rents HAtE tifht clothes..wut should ii do?? (link)
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my friend knows wat u mean. her mom would always buy her loose shirts and she hated it. just talk to your parents and tell them that u feel insecure wearing loose clothes, and that you don't wanna go totally slutty on them, but you'd like to wear clothes that show the shape of your body more. if that doesnt work, just go out and buy your own clothes. i know my mom doesnt argue if i'm buying my own clothes. and if that still doesnt work or you don't have any money, just tie a little hairband in the back of your shirt so that it'll look tighter. if you have anymore questions, just IM me!
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