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my friends bf dont trust her
okay well my friend wanted to give her male friend a hug well cuz he just had a baby and she was proud he was handling it so well and being cutrious[sorry cant spell] she asked her boyfriend if she could give Casey[her friend] a hug and her bf[shane] said no cuz he thinks that Allie[my friend] likes casey b-cuz she used to and now she dont and besides that point there almost brother and sister but any ways i wrote her bf a note saying he should trust Allie more b-cuz she loves him alot and that if he dont trust her they dont have much of a realtionship and he got mad and he wont allow her to sit by me in the morning while we r waiting for school to start and she CHOSE to sit wit him and i dont think its fair for him to NOT trust her and to control her like that is it rite?
Brogan
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okay, just so ya know, i had to read that many time until i finally understood lol.
no i don't think its right that her bf doesnt trust her. and no its not right that he controls her.
with the whole trust thing, i mean, that depends upon the person. some people can automatically trust someone, and thats how they get hurt emotionally and physically. with others, it takes time and patience for earning trust.
but that doesnt justify for his controling of her. if it were up to me, i'd guess that he's probably dangerous. i know girls who's bf's won't let them talk to any guy what so ever, even a male teacher. and if they do, it can eventually lead to him hurting her.
talk to your friend, try to convince her to break up with him, and tell her he might be dangerous and she deserves someone better, someone who can tust her a little more. because to me, trust is something NOT given to strangers and the like. but i think i'd have to trust the guy i like before going out with him.
if she tells you that she can't break up with him, but won't give you a reason why (or maybe she says "because i love him") its most likely that he might have already hurt her. if you keep asking her why she wont break up within, she'll tell you eventually.
and remember, dont hesitate to tell your parents, her parents, or any teachers IF you suspect him hurting her and you can prove it in some way.
if all that still doesnt answer your question, just ask me again :)
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