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i hate this love thing
i have a boyfriend rite...well ne ways i went to a party and i kinda got drunk and things went to far with this boy...umm i should say his best friend and i really dont kno how to tell my boy and i really want to tell him but then again i dont want to tell him because i dont want to lose him...i will feel bad if i dont and i will feel bad if do. what should i do
female 17
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Ok other than the post below mine the rest are idiots. You will lose both ways but you have to lose to win sometimes i know its weird but its true. See i went through about the same thing i wasnt drunk but i did cheat on her but i sat her down and told her that i loved her and didnt mean for it to happen that i was out of my mind and im sorry but if you wanna break up with me its your choice but ill never let you go and ill call you everyday to say i loved her and thats it nothing else and we are still together till this day. WE all make mistakes noones perfect. Good luck
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One way or another you loose in this. If you don't tell him, chances are his friend will for the same reasons you're agonizing over. Then there are the other people at the party. He's going to find out. I'd personally tell before a complete "well meaning" stranger does. He's going to be hurt by your betrayal, and you will probably loose him. But you'll have a much better chance at winning him back if you're upfront than if he finds out on the sly. Situations like this are why I don't get drunk. I once saw a friend of mine propose marriage to a FAKE potted fern. He was serious. The boy had decroative moss in his mouth from trying to kiss his "fiance." IT may sound funny in retrospect but I was truely worried for the blitzed idiot. At least your temp love was a real person. Hug and support, Sweetie. Good Luck!
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Lying is so overrated.
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umm take it from me..keep it to yourself! it may hurt you inside but your boyfriend will lose you and his bestfriend...just keep it on the low it's for the better..it'll hurt hurt him more knowing!
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