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A guy i really like!
There is this guy who i really like and he says that he really likes me to but the weekend he was flirting with my cousin and she told me that he was suppose to get a girl on the go this weekend. After all the shit i have been through with him i am really confused on what to do.What should i do?
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Hi there, I think we've all been there at some point - relationship stuff does get better!!
Firstly, did you actually see him flirting with your cousin and did you hear him say that he was to get another girl on the go. If not, then ask yourself how much you can trust this person who gave you this information. If in fact he was flirting, then this is no big deal - most people flirt just for the fun of it,and there's often nothing else to it. If you are not actaully in a relationship with this guy, then there's no reason to stop him or yourself seeing other people. However, if on the other hand you were under the impression that you and him are going somewhere and if he is getting it on with other girls', then I think you should speak to this guy and ask him where you stand.
If he is still willing to get it on with other girls' whilst in a relationship with you, then I think that you should just forget about this guy and find someone who deserves you. Good luck. Lanie
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He's just not ready for a serious relationship. That's probably not a bad thing for either of you. Relationships like that can be fun and relaxing when you know there is no stress for commitment. Date, be friends, and keep looking around. Don't settle your heart on him, he's not ready for it. In the end you may find someone better. You may end up with a great friendship. Remember, "really like" doesn't mean "I love you madly." It means "I really like you." This could mean you'll just be friends or maybe something more will come of it. Pushing the issue isn't going to solve anything, and could hurt what you do have. Relax. Don't get posessive, and have some fun!
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You really gotta listen to your heart on this one.If this guy doesnt seem like he's ready for a relationship, i would wait to see.You deserve someone who's gonna be there for you and care for you and you there for them just the same.If you really really like him, well maybe give him a chance cuz @ the same time you'll never know until you find out.Hope i helped and good luck with that.
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