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This is kind of inbetween friendship and love life
I know I've already talked to you about the first problem I'm having, but I can't remember exactly where you stood on the issue. I'll tell you my problem again, as well as another one.
I've had this crush on this girl for quite some time. It's gotten to the point where I'll buy stuff I don't really need, nor do I really want, just to talk to her. She always seems happy to see me and always gives me a big hug before I leave. The problem is I have no idea how old she is. I'm not the type of guy who judges people who date younger or older people, but it seems to worry my when I'm involved. I'm 20, what if she's only 15 or 16. She looks and kind of acts young, so I'm worried. What do you think the dating age limit should be for someone like myself?
The other problem. Earlier today, I saw scars and cuts on her rist. It doesn't look like something an accident would have caused. I know she can't really die from cuts on arm, but the scars aren't exactly good for her either. How should I go about asking her where they're from? Is it even my business to ask such a question? What if she obviously lies to me about the scars origins? Should I just drop it then or what?
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Don't ask about the scars. If you see new cuts, then you need to cautiously ask her if she is ok and if she needs someone to talk to. Just, leave the scars alone. Scars mean that time has passed, and maybe she has already dealt with her problem.
As for the age thing - just ask her. When you find out how old she is - then you can come back for advice.
I act and look young, but I'm not very young. There are people who act and look old, but are young. So just ask her and then let me know. Ok?
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