ok, so i have this friend. she like, thinks shes 21 or something when shes NOT! shes in middle school!! so yeah she thinks its cool if you go smoke and drink but actually it makes her look dirty. and theenn she will go try and hook up with older guys that are way to old for her and she doesnt understand that what shes doing is making her look like a dumbass!! ive tried to talk to her but shes just weird and thinks shes too cool for me. but yeah i just dont know what to say to her so please help :) goodbye<3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? sjcstar1361 answered Monday November 22 2004, 8:35 pm: well what i would do is talk to her and tell her that she needs to stop doing all that stuff. and she needs to chill with allt he drugs and drinking and stuff. but make sure you tell her that you want what is best for her, and your just looking out for her future. and the guys shes hooking up with maybe the kind of guys that shes looking for. i know i like talking and hooking up with older guys because they are more mature, sounds gay as hell, but it is. some guys are mature at and older age, and some guys arent. she might just be finding the guys that are mature, and cute. and for the drinking and rugs thing, it might be a family problem?or she might be insecure with herself?you just nee dto ask her why she thinks she needs to do it. and what compells her to do it. thats all. ask me again if you need more help!
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