Question Posted Thursday November 18 2004, 12:32 am
I met this guy about 3 months ago. We always spent time together and although it was really never discussed he referred to me as his gf all the time.. He called me all the time we talked everyday 2 or 3 times a day. I was always staying the night with him and i feel dumb sayin this but i fell for him and thought he felt the same about me too. But all of a sudden now he don't call me that much unless i call him and he like never has ne time to do ne thing..what should i do? All my friends say that he is confused and he don't know what he wants but yet i don't know what to think.... What do you think lol..? thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sunshine1030 answered Thursday November 18 2004, 10:06 am: i agree with your friends. a lot of guys, after getting into a relationship, freak out and out of nowhere back off. what i would suggest doing is calling him and suggesting that you two meet for coffee or something, and then talking to him about it. don't make it a big deal, but just tell him that you're confused because all of the sudden he just stopped calling you, and you were just wondering if everything was ok, and what was going on. hopefully he'll tell you the truth, and then based on what he tells you you can decide where to go from there. if he doesn't tell you the truth, or just tells you that everything is fine and he doesn't know what you're talking about, then, if i were you, i would break up with him, or just not see him anymore, because he clearly doens't have the respect for you that he should, and it's not fair for him to leave you hanging like that. i hope this helped, and let me know how things turn out. [ sunshine1030's advice column | Ask sunshine1030 A Question ]
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