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!!!please help!!!
Ok there's this guy Alex who asked me out a few years ago but i turned him down and now i regret it so much and ive regretted it since i told him no and i didnt see him for a while and i couldnt stop thinking about him and i found out that there was a chance that i would never seehim again so i started crying for like days and then i found out that i actually would get to see him again and i was SO happy and so now i see Alex in the halls at skool and i wanna go out with him and i really like him and maybe love him..ive thought that i loved him since the moment i told him no and i realized that was a big mistake ugh.. do u think im in love? i mean i know they say that when ur in love u KNOW it, and all this time ive thought that i KNOW im in love..but do u think i am? ive nver been in love b4 so i donno but i feel like but i dont think i could live without him and i get butterflies when im think about him and ugh.. sory this was so long but pls help thanku!
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anythings possible but no i dont think it is love you are feeling i think that it is obsession!!
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it's possible, but it's really hard to be in love with someone that you don't know that well. chances are you are, as what i like to call it, "in lust" with him, or infatuated with him. often times, when you're in the beginning of a relationship, or when you are in your position, the two (lust and love) can feel very similar. they key (for me at least), was not thinking that i could not live without him, but realizing that i would do anything and everything for him, and he would do the same for me. we are there for each other unconditionally, no matter what the circumstance. you say that you get butterflies in your stomach whenever you think about him. that usually doesn't happen when you're in love...when you're in love and you think about the person you love, you feel happy, very happy, knowing that there is someone out there who would do anything just to see you smile. obviously i can't tell you if you're in love or not, but from what it seems to me, you are infatuated with him, and since you can't have him (at least not at the moment), you are experiencing lust. but if you truely believe that you are in love, it's possible. i hope this helped! lemme know what happens
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hmmm, well when your in love you guys usually talk and you spend time together, your there for eachother no matter what, worse comes to worse you can rely on eachother.. you work hard to make eachother smile, etc. If yall feel any of those (maybe just one) then you might be. but nobody is to determine if your in love besides yourself & you will know wen it happens. i think that you wana get to know alex if you don't already and then your gona see if hes your 'one' or not :P if yall don't talk you shoudl start! well good luck hun! x0x mUah*jess
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