ok i have a friend who calls me her bestfriend but she somtimes doesnt seem like it. she has another best friend too and i dont really like her that much cause i feel like she is taking my best friend away from me. we have known eachother for a really long time and they just met not long ago and she doesnt like me much either and i'm not sure why she doesn't?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx answered Wednesday November 3 2004, 7:02 am: it sounds to me like you may be a tad jealous of your best friends other friends. if you and your best friend have been friends for a long time, chances are, that is a strong friendship, and it't not going to fade just like that. it's totally normal not like your best friends other friends. but know that your best friends other friends are probably not trying to take her away. they just want to be close with her and have a good friendship with her, and are probably unaware of the way they are making you feel. i can't answer why she doesn't like you much, because that goes on a more personal note. have you said or done anything? have you had a friendly, accepting attitude? maybe your best friend likes to spend time with you and this other other person separately, because she knows you too do not like each other that much. if that's the case, try going out of your way to be friendly to your other friend. you'd be surprised at what happens. it may even form a new friendship. [ XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx's advice column | Ask XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx A Question ]
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