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please help me ..
hey i was reading your cloumn and i needed suim advice .. ok so here it is .. i havea friend who always lies to me and she treats me like crap and im so fed up with it. then a couple months ago she lied to me sayin we couldnt hang out cuz she got grounded and she did the same exact thing last nite. i was about ready to have a breakdown and cry. i am so confused and i dont know what to do. i love her to death but i dont kno if i should just forget about her and move on .. or should i confront her about it. but the thing is that its happened twice and im scared it will happen again she has no idea how much she hurts me when she treats me this way. please help me i dont know what to do.
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You're in a tough situation. Frankly, what you're going through sucks. You don't deserve to be lied to. If this girl was truly your friend, then she wouldn't feel the need to lie to you. Before you label her as "not a friend" I think you should talk to her, let her know everything you feel and why you feel that you're being betrayed. If she still proceeds to treat you so badly, I suggest you find a new friend. As horrible as that sounds, it may be the truth. There are far more deserving people out there of your company. Good luck, hun. I hope everything works out for you.
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Oh, wow, that sounds really mean. She is one of those people you call "toxic friends" in which they use you for things such as money, possessions, etc. You really don't need to confront her, just tell her that you've tried to be her friend but it's not working out for you. If you want something snappy to tell her, say, "Hey, do I smell bad? Because you seem to be treating me like crap." Find other friends who are worth your time. I'm really sorry, because I know how painful this is. I once had a friend like that. You can e-mail me or IM me if you ever have anymore questions. Good luck hunny :)
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