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My friend is a whore...
14/f. I have a friend, Monica, who has really become somewhat of a whore in my opinion. She was going out with this one guy, Mike, and went to homecoming with him. Then a few days ago when we took a field trip she got all cuddly and mushy and kissy (I assume) with Jake. She hasn't told me that her and Mike have broken up and it doesn't seem like they have, but at the same time she is walking down the hall holding hands and with her arms around Jake. They have only been like this for about 3 days! I think she is cheating, but when I asked what happened to Mike, she just said "Geez we're not married!" What should I do? She never used to be like this and I never would have thought she would do anything like this.
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Okay well first off, she isn't a whore although she did do something bad she didn't go to THOSE extremes! Well anyway, talk to her, tell her what it looks like and that you want to know what's going on in her life. If she won't talk ask Mike or Jake what they think about what is going on! Tell Jake that he might want to back off b/c she has a boyfriend and tell her that she needs to tell Mike that they are over if that's the case! Tell me how it goes! :)
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I don't think she is a whore just b/c she is cheating on a guy, but she is doing something pretty bad. I think you should talk to Mike and ask how Monica and him are, see his reaction and what he says. They maybe over, or they may not. If they aren't I would sit Monica down and talk about it! I would also tell Mike about what is going on (not behind her back! Tell her first!)Hope I helped!
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ok i dont think that shes considered a whore not even close but ask mike whats goin on with them too and if he says they are broken up than leave it but if they arent broken up than i thnk you should tell him that shes been hanging on that guy adn kissing him and crap gl
leah!!
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I know this isn't what you want to hear, but your friend is not a whore, and you aren't a very good friend for calling her one. She's right, they aren't married, and she's only 14, she's aloud to date around. How do you know that she isn't casually dating. And you are jumping to conclusions, I mean, I'm not saying that you're wrong, but I have a boyfriend, and I hold hands with other guys, I walk down the hall talking to other guys, and I'm a huge flirt, I mean for some girls it's natural. Whenever I start talking to a guy I flirt. It doesn't make her a whore. A whore is a TERRIBLE TERRIBLE thing to call somebody, and she's young, you're young, they aren't married, and unless they've been together for like 3-6 months, or more, then they aren't a serious couple. So just leave her alone for a while. She's experimenting different things.
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but I'm not here to tell you what you want to hear, I'm hear to give you a reality check. So sorry if I sound inconsiderate or rude, but thats how it is. She's growing up, meeting new guys, and experiencing new things, and you need to face it. I'm telling you what I would tell any of my friends if they called me a whore because they think I'm cheating, or doing what you have mentioned. It's not a bad thing. You shouldn't do anything, if it really bothers you, don't be friends with her. Maybe if you had a boyfriend, and found somebody else you thought you liked, you would understand, but obviously you aren't in that position, so you have no idea whats going on. I'm sorry, but today I'm in a bit of a bad mood, so I'm just really saying whats on my mind, so I don't mean to be rude, or insensitive, and I apologize for anything that is taken the wrong way, but I'm a mod and I need to update my column, so I'm of course needing to answer a question, plus I like to help, so that's why I answered. (I didn't want you to put feedback and be all like, "Well why did you answer my f***** question b****.")
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