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3 of my BFF's like the guy i like
Hey! First of all i'd like to say i luv ur coloumn... one of my friends suggested u to me they've written to u b4. Okay, here's the deal... I like this guy at my skool, but so do 3 of my other friends. I know that one of my friends would totally hate me if I went out with him. the other 2 said thhey wouldn't get mad but I know they would... He's said that he likes me and 3 of my other friends! I've started thinkg that i'm just not gonna like him cuz i would get hurt if he went out with them(even though i said i wouldn't be)and vise versa.I don't know what to do! Please help me! ( I'm 15 and a female, incase u didn't get that)
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This sounds really mean but do you care about the friend that would hate you?? Because theres all those things like "Chicks before Dicks" and stuff but if shes not a very good friend and you'd rather go out w.him then be friends with her then you should go out w.him!! But if you didn't care about her you probably wouldn't be asking soooo...I don't think you should go out w.him. I mean, that really sucks that if he likes you, you can't go out with him because of your friends. But you probably shouldn't like him/go out with him. Its like so hard to just not like someone tho =( You and all of your friends should get together and really talk about it. Because all of them would probably do something like, say they won't go out w.him, but then they would if he asked them out. So have like, a discussion and go thru all the senarios w.them and PROMISE that you'll all do the same thing. Because you don't want to say no when he asks you out and then have one of your friends say yes. So talk with your friends and promise you'll all do the same thing. (*and they might not be mad @ you if you go out w.him...but more like they'd just be mad)
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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