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Question Posted Friday October 22 2004, 7:15 pm

im in a real jab. i like my best friend and he likes me but... he also likes my bestfriend. And we both know about it. he's really sweet and a good friend but lately weve been getin to know the real him and its perverted. then suddenly he goea out with this girl micheal and didn.t tell us. at first we didn't think it was true until he told us. a big fight happened and we ignored him for a while. Now while he's going out with her i feel jealous. i care for him and its hurting our friend ship. does he like me? does he like my friend? or is he just playin us both?...

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HaPpYdUcK8989 answered Saturday October 23 2004, 1:19 am:
This guy seems like a player! Is he the kind of boyfriend you want? Besides... He likes both you and your friend! You said so yourself! Just talk to him, If things don't work out, It's probably for the better!

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kencaramel05 answered Saturday October 23 2004, 12:45 am:
I THINK HES PLAYING YOU BOTH, THERE IS NO WAY THAT A BOY SHOULD LIKE YOU AND YOUR BEST FRIEND.IF HE WAS A REAL GENTLEMEN HE WOULD RESPECT THE FACT THAT YALL ARE BEST FRIENDS AND HE WOULDNT TRY TO GRT IN BETWEEN THAT.NEVER LET A GUY GE IN BETWEEN A CLOSE FRIENDSHIP B/C HE IS A BITCH AND HES NOT WORTH IT.KEEP YA FRIEND B/C SHE WILL BE THERE WHEN YA GUY LEAVES YOU.THINK SMART AND BE SMART ALWAYS!1

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Laura answered Friday October 22 2004, 9:20 pm:
I had the EXACT same thing. I liked this guy, he liked me, AND my best friend. It turns out he was a total asshole anyway and we broke up. It's not worth the fights you have with your friends about him. If he goes out with other people he's obviously not interested in an exclusive relationship. Dump him.

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Cath answered Friday October 22 2004, 9:15 pm:
Hello Dearest You,
You seem like a sweet person and he seems like an asshole. But its not your fault for caring for him OR for being jeolous.
Knowing facts like that he liked you or that once he was a good friend (even if it was pretend) will bring these feelings of jeolousy you just can't help. There's nothing wrong with any of that. Just remember that ALTHOUGH you care for him you may not be the person who can help him. Hopefully that person exists and he'll meet this person.
As for you there are other cool CUTE guys... that will just like you and not you and your buddies (l.o.l.) A guy who actually deserves you. It doesn't matter how nice your "friend" was but what he did was wrong. If he ever wants your friendship (AND MEANS IT THIS TIME) make sure he EARNS it back. Make sure he shows you he's changed. Until then straighten out your feelings and wish him the best and try to find an effort to notice the other cute guys!
Wish You the Best and I Hope I Was of Help. Blessed Be...

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UnluckyWishes answered Friday October 22 2004, 8:12 pm:
He could be playing both of you.Once and a while you find a really rude guy like that.Maybe not though.There could be a reason why he didnt tell you.Maybe try talking to him about it.Anything thats one your mind just let him know.Hope i helped and everythign gets straightened out.

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