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Ex and his best friend
I'm 14, almost 15, and I'm a girl. I really like this guy and I thought he liked me too. He hasn't asked me out yet, but I know at one point he liked me because he told me..."I like you a lot but I don't want to go out right now." I've been waiting on him for I think almost a month now, and he's gotten me alone twice, both times he was kind of hinting for a kiss, but I thought I might have imagined it so I decided not to...twice, I kinda just said goodbye or see ya later and walked away. Now I think he's hurt by me doing that, and he hasn't asked me out, but I want to know what to do...he's confusing me. And along with that it was my ex-boyfriend who kinda hooked us up. He's the kinda guy who grinds with all the girls at our homecoming...do you think he's waiting unitl after that? do you think i hurt him by being afraid to kiss him? does he even like me anymore? what should i do?
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if hes that type of guy...then i would think hes looking foward to "grinding with all the girls at homecoming". He has to understnd he cant just kiss u right away...so he shouldnt be hurt about that. When ur ready for it..thats when he`ll get it. You kno this guy better than i do..so use ur judgement..you seem ike a smart person. I think he stilll likes u...bc not lking some 1 just bc they wouldnt kiss u is childish...so dont give up yet. What i think u should do ...is make al ist possibly. List the good stuff about this guy and the bad stuff...if u feel u cxan handle the bad things about this person (we all have something bad about us) and if u feel u really like this guys qualitites...then go for him!
Telll him how u want the relationship to go...take command...dont let this guy be the grinder at homecoming..and then ur sweetheart the next minute..(unless ur cool with that)
good luck! and sorry for the typos lol
-melissa
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