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is it me or is it her?
does he like me or does he like herr???
(sry i know this is long)
ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx
P.S. also...i asked him last night on-line what this girls name is and he said "marissa" and i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..and when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again
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Well it seems like if he likes you.Or maybe there is a girl he does like but what you should do is tell him that he should be himself but not in those exact same words.but if he did bring up "What if he liked you" that because he does and is trying to find out your responce without being so obvious that he does.Well would you see him as a bf? thats the question but if he keeps going on about this girl ask hi mto describe her then it might help you out a little to what to say to him.i hope i helped i ope it works out.
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il confused but what i think ur sayin is that u like this guy who likes a girl and u dont no weather or not its u and he wants to no how do ask a girl out and u keep tellin him but he dusnt believe u. Well heres what id do . Next time he asks u tell him that uve already told him what u think. also tell him that all girls are different. If he keeps asking u just dont responde and hell get the message. And if u like him tell him that u do and ask him out! and if he says no then move on. he seems like hes a pretty confusing guy. And as for the boy girl controversey tell him that girls also get embarrassed bout askin guys out and also the guy they like might not like them. Good luck and if u want more help just explain the ? a lil more. thnx! =D
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It almost sounds like your friend likes you. If he keeps asking how to ask a girl out, its very possible he's trying to ask you out. My suggestion, is just to ask him and tell him to tell you the truth. Then go from there. Hope that Helped!
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You guys are arguing over something pretty stupid. Just tell him that both the girl and the guy, have it hard you kno?. You dont need to argue about this, the main point is he wants to ask someone out and he asked you for help. Tell him, if he doesnt want to get turned down..that he should talk to her more before just asking her out. He needs to get to know her better, and then ask her out. He needs to get her number, screen-name, etc. Go out with her just as friends..and if he sees there might be something there-then he should ask her out. Do you think your the girl he likes? Well, if you do..Dont say anything. It could be you, and it could not be you. You just have to wait and see. I hope I helped, and dont argue about who has it harder. K:) Any more questions, ask me!
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ok first off, I always tell everyone, never apologize to me for long questions. Its not your fault yourl ifes twisted and things take time to explain. Plus how can I help someone who gives me about a morsel of their problem, exactly I cant. To help you with your situation...well its a little confusing but Im getting it lol . well maybe he likes you. And hes the one asking you for advice because he wants to see what will work best if he were to ask you out. I say you straight out tell him y ou really do like him. It can only get better like that. Maybe there is a Marissa, but she's obviously a lot less important than you are or you'd no a little more about her. He talks to you alot and your little fights sound kinda cute lol. You guys sound like you belong together and i really think you should just tell him. Telling him is the best thing to do.....
gl sweets
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It seems like he really like you [by the sounds of wat u r saying.]He probally was afraid u were takin so he might not have a chance with you. He could like this Marissa and you.
I'm so sorry I couldn't help you out anymore
~kris~
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