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my bestfriend and her boyfriend have been dating for 10 months now and they are both 15. my boyfriend is bestfriends with him and told me that he said they were thinking about having sex. i know that i cant do anything to stop her but its just that she has always said she wanted to wait until she was married. she wont do it unless he uses a condom but im just worried about her and i feel like she may be pressured into something she doesnt want to do because it doesnt sound like her. what can i do?
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All you can do is try to talk to her. Not necessarily telling her she can't do it. But, just talking to her about it. After all, she is your best friend, you guys can talk about that. But, just be like "I know you've guys been dating for 10 months and don't get me wrong, I think thats great and I'm so happy for you. But, I heard you're thinking about having sex with him and you'll only do it with him if he uses a condom. Thats great that you'll only do that if he uses a condom. But, I always thought you wanted to wait til marriage..." And just talk to her about that and then be like "But, I also don't want you to feel like you're pressured into having sex with him because you don't have to if you don't want to. But, I just wanted to talk to you about this..." Just say something like that and just talk to her about it. I hope this helps and good luck hun! If you need anymore help, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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