I'm a single mother... and I'm only 15. He's four... the sad thing is that it's not even my kid. My parents are divorced. My mom left us and it's not even my dad's kid (I don't even KNOW who the father is). Now I'm stuck watching this almost five year old boy. He's violent and no matter how many times i try and tell to stop, he won't. I don't know what else to do, i mean... he cries if i tie him up. and I don't have enough money to pay for someone else to take care of him. I can't give him up for adoption because i'm not the legal guardian. There are times when i get so pissed at him that i just want to beat the living shit out of him and bury him in my backyard. What can I do (oh, and I don't go to a school that provides service, i haven't even GONE to school in a while)? Please... I <i>really</i> need youor help...
-another confused teen-
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? Farewellmadison answered Monday October 11 2004, 7:17 pm: Dear Confused Teen,
wow.. Since your not the legal guardian, they cant do anything to you if you try and give him up. Hes not your problem, its someone elses, you just got stuck with him. I really think that you should have someone take him. Just call CPA, it would be so much better for the both of you. It would take him off your hands and it would help you out as well since your 15. I really feel for you even thought I could never imagine myself in that sitution. Please do something, ask for judicial help, THEY WONT DO ANYTHING BAD TO YOU! I swear. Its not your fault that your stuck with him. Trust me, they will help. 100%. If you need someone to talk to Im here.. My s/ns on here somewhere.. Good Luck, and please call CPA.. I swear they arent going to hurt you in anyway, they only make it better..
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