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14/f
Okay, i've liked this guy for about 3 years, and i told him during this summer, he told me he liked me since the 6th grade, but now that this school year started, he says that i'm annoying and i should stop talking to him, at first i was pissed but i understood that you can't force people to like you, but whenever i see him in the halls or at lunch, i find him staring at me and whenever i catch him staring, he immediatly looks away, what does that mean? my friend<guy> says that he might just think that i'm easy on his eyes, but i'm not so sure he's right cause i don't think i'm very pretty, but i just don't know if he does or doesn't like me, i just don't know what he thinks?
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well, next chance you get you could ask him exactly what about you he finds annoying. some guys do like a girl and just be "mean" to them. its like a game or something. and im sure you are pretty. not many people think that they are. and next time he is staring at you, smile at him. that is if you get the chance seeing as he looks down. or ask one of his friends what he thinks of you. hope i helped. you know where to find me if you need me.
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Don't you wish you could read guys' minds? It would make everything SO much easier, wouldn't it? Sounds like mixed messages. Says you're annoying, but stares at you all the time...
I'm tempted to think your guyfriend is right about the guy you like thinking you're easy on the eyes. However, the only way to know for sure what's going on in his head is to actually go up and tell him he's sending mixed messages, and you want to know which one is right.
That's what I'd do - but then, I'm the kinda girl who speaks up when it comes to guys, lol. Generally, anyway. I suggest you ask him what's going on if you really wanna know.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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Okay, I was in a similar situation like this when I was your age. I was just starting high school and I was good friends with this guy I had like since the 7th grade. We talked all the time online and told each other secrets no one knew. I told him I liked him and how long I had been feeling that way. He said he'd liked me too, but we didn't take it any farther. Then I found out the reason he wouldn't date me. A few other girls had been persuing him around that same time and it seemed he thought I would always be around since I had liked him for so long, so he decided to persue one of the other girls. I was hurt, but I realized that he really didn't care about me. It took awhile for me to get over him and I still relapse now and then, but I know it will never work out.
This boy blew you off and said some pretty mean things to you. Even if he does liek you now, would you really want to date someone who would hurt your feelings like that? He may be staring at you because he realizes what he's missing. I'm sure you're a lot prettier than you think you are. Everyone in this world is beautiful, and the most beautiful people are often the ones that think they aren't. Even so, you're too good for this boy. He will just play with your emotions and break your heart.
What I suggest is that you forget about the boy who can't stop staring at you. There's another guy in your life who I believe would treat you much better than him...your friend. He suggested that another guy might find you attractive and in my opinion I think he might find you attractive as well. Besides, friends always make the best boyfriends. They already know you so well and you know they like you for who you are. You don't have to listen to me, and I might be wrong, but it just seems like he might have a crush on you. Consider it. I hope I was of some help. Please just ask me if you need any more advice. And always remember...you are BEAUTIFUL!
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When he stares at you in the halls or at lunch, it means that he still likes you but he won't admit it. Guys are always like that. Just go along with it and in the future he might regret what he said about you and might ask you out! Who knows lol? Hope I helped :)
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Every guy is different when it comes to them liking girls. But, he's like you since the 6th grade and he might just think you don't like him anymore, since that was summer when you told him. So, he might of told you to stop talking to him to try to get over you or something. Or he might know you still do like him and might be playing hard to get. I mean, thats kind of weird he tells you to stop talking to him but yet he stares at you when you two walk past each other. Thats really odd. Hmm. Well maybe you should try talking to him again. You can write him a note or tell him yourself. And just be like "Well, you know how during the summer I told you I liked you? And you told me you liked me since 6th grade? Well, I don't know what your deal is or anything, but I do still like you. But, its like ever since school started, you told me that I'm annoying and I need to stop talking to you. I just want to know whats up with that.." Just say something like that, and then you'll know what his deal is. I hope this helps and good luck hun. Tell me how it goes. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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