I know it's long, but I'm looking for some good advice!
Okay, sometimes a teacher of mine can say some terrible stuff about our class, once or twice she's said it about our class, and my sister is in her 4th period, and so is a close friend of mine, and the friend told me stuff she's been saying, and I asked my sister if it was true, and she hesitently said no, and the next day I confronted the teacher and she said she'd never say anything about our class.
And yesterday, she had a terrible headache during our class, she said it started a little before 1st period, then she said today that she was feeling a bit better during her yesterdays 4th period, but she still felt sick
I confronted friends from both periods, asking how they thought the teacher was feeling, because she seemed like she was going to cry, and they all said what are you talking about, she was totally fine.
I know it's not really verbal abuse, but what can some of us students do to get her to admit how she feels about us, or atleast have her stop telling other classes rude things about us? Oh, and I have proof, I actually hid a tape recorder in her room after my class, and then I picked it up the next day, and she had said stuff about us the only bad thing is I dropped it, it was raining and it slipped out of my hand, and fell down the sewer drain (what luck) I've also passed by her classroom while she was telling another class about us. So I do know for a FACT she talks about us, but is there anything we can do to get her to stop... were not really that bad of a class, just 2 or 3 of my friends mess around, and make jokes, which she btw laffs at.
Additional info, added Tuesday October 5 2004, 8:31 pm: She actually does say stuff about us, she called a friend of mine a stupid ass, or dumb ass, or well I don't remeber exact words, and I haven't been doing that well lately, because A friend of mine passed away, and she said to my BFF in 4th period that I've been lazy, my grades are dropping, and that I'm stupid, which I don't give if she says it, but when she tells another student that, especially a good friend of mine, it's out of control. Want to answer more questions in the Work & School category? Maybe give some free advice about: School? sWeEt_x3_BaBii answered Tuesday October 5 2004, 8:13 pm: Don't worry about it. All teachers do that. Unless she is saying hurtful things about individuals, then you should talk to the guidance counselor but ask that if anything is done to stay anonymous. Don't mention the tape or you may get in trouble. [ sWeEt_x3_BaBii's advice column | Ask sWeEt_x3_BaBii A Question ]
RaZzLeDaZzLe2011 answered Tuesday October 5 2004, 7:45 pm: that is really terrible that she talks about all the other classes! If you feel really strongly about it then maybe you and a group of friends should go to your principle/adminustrator (scuse my spelling) and tell him/her about what your teacher is doing but do not bring your recording of her talking. If your principle/adminustrater doesn't believe you guys then say something along the lines of 'what if we could prove to you that she talks about us?'if you want to then you should show the principle the recording. what your teacher did was terrible and she has no right to do that! I hoope I helped, let me know what happens!
~Jen [ RaZzLeDaZzLe2011's advice column | Ask RaZzLeDaZzLe2011 A Question ]
united_python_cheerleader answered Tuesday October 5 2004, 7:41 pm: TELL A COUNSLOR ASAP SHE WILL KNOW WHAT TO DO
Cheshire_Thoughts answered Tuesday October 5 2004, 6:40 pm: Honestly, i dont think theirs anything you can do to make her stop talking about you, if she really doesn't like your class thats her opinion..its not like im on her side but yeah..their isn't much you can do..but of course you could always report her.but the teacher always has the power over your grades..you should go with a couple of friends and confront her sometime, show her that you have proof and start asking
but you always have to be careful kuz of the grades...sorry if i wasn't much help, keep me updated
~Lucifer [ Cheshire_Thoughts's advice column | Ask Cheshire_Thoughts A Question ]
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