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alright.. well im 14 and in 9th grade.. i just moved and started a new school and all.. and i made friends and all but i met this one guy that i really really like.. i sit with him at lunch everytime me and him have lunch together, he seems really nice and all but i think i like him more then a friend.. me and him are really starting to get close and im thinking about wanting to go to the homecoming dance with him, but i dont want to ask him i want him to ask me lol, well idk how i should like hint it out that i wana go with him, does anyone have any suggestions on how to hint this to him? i could really use the help :)
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Perhaps you could simply bring up the topic of the dance at lunch. You could ask him if he is planning to go. That should at least start a conversation about the dance. And, if he wants to ask you but has been waiting for the right time, then you will have just provided it for him.
Keep in mind that he might be embarrased to just ask you outright, so if he seems nervous and throws the question back at you, [For example: "I don't know, what do you think about the dance?"] then you could make a statement that you think you would like to go, but that, so far, nobody has asked you. Letting him subtly know that you already want to go might help him if he has a fear of being "shot down". Best of luck to you.
Kind wishes,
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How about when you are just talking to him you bring up the homecoming dance and ask him if he is going to go and if he is then tell him that you would like to go but you don't have anyone to go with and maybe he will ask you if you want to go. But watch out because he might also say ok about we go together but as friends think about that too.
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heres a few hints you can use..
*at lunch just go around the table and ask all your friends and him who they are going to homecoming with and if he says no1 be like omg me 2 and just laugh alil and if see what he says..
*If you see him in the hall and you guys are walking the same way just run up to him and walk with him and just start talking and in the convo in the middle just try to slide the homecoming dance into the convo..for insence you guys are talking about lunch..be like soo is the homecoming gonna be in the cafateria? and see what he says and just stay on the subject..and say yeah we should hang out there sence neither of us have dates!
*If you both have aim sns talk to him bout it one night just start the convo about the homecoming and be like we have to dance at least once but in a funny way so he gets the hint but also thinks your joking..(-sounds dumb but works great-)
hope I helped! Good luck =)
love you! 0ox KelleY 0ox
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In order for this guy to ask you to homecoming, you have to drop very obvious hints. Just be like "Man, this sucks, I have no date for homecoming..." And if he says something like that back to you, just ask him to homecoming. That's all there is too it. Most guys are shy with asking girls to special occasions. Hope I helped and good luck sweetie :)
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be like "I want to go to homecoming so bad, but i have no one to go with"..that will prolly work..good luck!!
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