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Question Posted Sunday September 26 2004, 11:24 am

I have a huge problem...I can't stop smoking...and I really don't mean ciggarettes....

Ever since i've been dating my boyfriend, (which is over a year now) I have been smoking pot more and more... I did before that too, but not as much and i am now.

He lives in a rual town, and no one really cares out there, where I live in the suburbs...But last weekend when i was out there, I took the biggest hit ever. Now it hurts to breathe, and I realized that its not the best thing for my body...

It just makes everything so much better. I'm not weak, or insecure, (for the most part) but I just love the feeling.

I have never done, and will never do, any hardcore drugs...

but I really need some advice. I don't want to stop, but I don't want to smoke as much. I'm always around it when I'm with it and sometimes I hate it ...what can I say to him? He understands that I don't like it, but it's his choice you know...I already told him i wouldnt break up with him for it, and I'm too close to him to do somthing like that.

<3 please helpp


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selectopaque answered Sunday September 26 2004, 1:14 pm:
Yes, it is his choice. So why do you have to smoke it just because he is? I don't understand why you are having a problem. If you don't want to smoke sometimes then just don't smoke. Cut it back to once a day, or three times a week, or once a week, it all depends on how much YOU want to smoke.

Smoking marijuana is not hard to stop at all, especially if you don't want to. If you love the feeling and it's not affecting your work or school, then go for it. If you don't like it sometimes, then just don't smoke all the time. It's really just that simple.

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xoMarisox answered Sunday September 26 2004, 12:12 pm:
Listen, I know you don't want to stop but you have to. Go to the pharmacy and see if they have anything to help. If that doesn't work you have to go to the doctors. What matters more, being healthy or having a b/f. Your b/f should be helping you to stop not pressureing you. You need to stop, it's the right thing. Hope I helped! Rate me please!

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fallenangel685 answered Sunday September 26 2004, 12:09 pm:
You should really think about stopping smoking.Its extremley bad for you while you might think it makes you feel good its really shortening your life and killing your lungs.You cant breathe because your lungs are turning black and there shriveling up to nothing and when they do you'll DIE!Crack is a horrible drug and you can get many diseases from it like cancer and you will die by 75 if you keep this shit up.So QUIT NOW there is still a chance that you could live a long life.I dont mean to scare you but wat ur doing is SERIOUS.There is a lot of other things in life that can make you feel good without hurting u.Try replacing marajuana with another candy like skittles and eat them all the time instead of marjauna.Skittles cant kill u so be addicted to then or something else. Sorry its so damn long!
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Sherry answered Sunday September 26 2004, 11:37 am:
Well you dont want to completley stop, try having small doses. Like for example instead of (its an example) 20 times a week, do it 15 times for a week, then the next week do it 10, then the next 5...and maybe 2 or 3 for the rest of the time u wanna do drugs. Hope I helped!

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