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i don't need this!!
This is going to be a bit long... bare with me.
I'm a freshman in highschool and we are going on our 3rd-ish week of school. Alot of people say I'm really pretty and I think that I am too. But there are all these guys that keep hitting on me!! One of my new friends, Becky, she likes this guy named Russ and whever I see him he keeps blowing kisses to me. When he first did it I wasn't sure if he was doing it to me, then by the second time I realized he was. I was walking down the hallway to my friend's car so he could drive me home and there was this spanish guy that started talking to me in spanish. I understood some of it because I'm Puerto Rican from head to toe, inside and out, so I understood SOME of what he said because my parents didn't teach me spanish as a first language. He was basically telling me I was beautiful and that he wanted to get with me. I just walked by him and gave him a little smile. See the thing is, I have a boyfriend, I trust him and he trusts me. He goes to a different school so he's not there to witness any of this. Some people from my school know my boyfriend though and they don't like me all that much. They tell him that I'm flirting with all these guys whenever I'm just TALKING to one of my friends! I've told him that too. But I'm afraid that if people keep telling him that then he's going to start to believe it. I mean, if someone tells you so many times that you're girlfriend is flirting with someone else and even if you go and ask her and she denys it, after a while of hearing you're going to start believing it right? My fear is that he might break up with me because of this. I love him so much and I don'to want to lose him. What should I do?... sorry this was so long.
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I hardly got through that three-page whinatorium.
Tell the guy to fuck off, tell your boyfriend whats going on, maybe he'll go and kick the guy's ass and then he'll back off.
Guy love to look tough.
So yeah if he annoys you that much have your boyfriend kick his ass.
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I think that if you guys truly love and trust eachother he would believe you. You should just ignore thos other people because believe it or not they will stop cus theyre gonna get bored.. so just ignore them and tell your boyfriend that theres noone else but him. And give him a cute smile... it helpes.. believe me.. haha well i hope it goes alright
HOPE I HELPED'=)
-clara
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You said you guys trust eachother...So I dont see why he would believe these other people. What I would do is confront the people in front of your boyfriend. I'm sure that will make them stop.
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