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GRR! even though its long i really need advice!!!!!! please
me and my bff sit at a table with the most 4 boring people ever!....theres one girl we r friends wit the best but she takes us as her bffs...and me and my bff like her but to us she isnt our bff's cuz we cant have a conversation wit her!!!! on the first day of skool we tried sitting wit our other friends just to get away from the table but she came over to me and said "y is lauren(myfriend(bff) sitting over there and y r u here?"(cuz we usually sit at the same lunch table)andshe seemed upset! OMG me and my bff r soo upset at the table we sit it is so boring we cant have a conversation at and we dont kno what to do! Please help me out and give me ur best advice!!!!!!!!!
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try bringing up topics at the table that you all can relate too, so that will spark a conversation. if that doesn't work then maybe you should switch to another table, but you should tell the girl (that thinks your her bff) that's you wanna try to meet new people so you won't hurt her feelings
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*well sit with ur friends at the table u sat with teh first day of school* and if the other girl comes over b like "do u wanna come sit with us ?" have fun *hope i helped*
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Try not to think about bf's and Bff's because pretty soon you'll be like yeah jen's my bffaeaeaeaeae but your only my bffaeaeae!!.. it gets.. confusing. Try to think about this girls good quialities, if they outweigh the bad, then stick with her and just try to get her to talk. Invite her over to your house for a night and spend some quality time together. Maybe then she'll open up to you. If all else fails tell her that you really want to sit by those girls instead and i guess eventually she'll get the point. Lay it on her easy though. GoOd LuCk
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Well whatever your do let her down gently dont be mean to her, just let her know that shes a freind but shes not a best freind at least not yet anyway, and its not helping that shes following u guys everywhere, tell hern to go aorund and meet new people not just you guys, im sure theres so many other people in your lunch she would get along with so why dont u introduce her to someone else someone you know she'll get along with.....hope i helped if you need anything else then just ask me mandybrat17
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