Member Since: July 2, 2004
Answers: 11
Last Update: September 13, 2004
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my mom recently found out ive been cutting myself so now she questions it all the time and along with alot of other people do! i just want them to back off, its kind of a personal problem. what should i do? pleez help n' thanks. (link)
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Talk to them about it, it tell them that if they dont back off you the more your going to do it b/c all the pressure and stress there putting u under and if they still dont listen then theres not much u can do ther just trying to help u b/c cutting is a seriouse problem i know it helps with pain i used to do it but dont make it a habit.....hope i helped if u need anything else then drop one
Mandy
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I'm 13 and I got my period November of 2003. My mom doesn't really like me using tampons, I never have, and I never really wanted to. Until now. They seem some much easier, and more conveniant. My question is, which kind do I buy? Mine aren't usually really heavy, but they aren't light either. So what brands to you reccomend? (link)
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I use tampax pearl the rgulars b/c if ur not heavy and ur not lite then ur in the middle so use regulars and Tampax pearl is what u wanna use there so easy and comftorable......drop me one if u need anything else
Mandy
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Well the other day one of my very close friends told me that she was a lezbo i mean lyk i totally support that n all but i feel wierd what should i do? (link)
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Dont feel weird shes still the same freind you knew before just now with out being straight shes gay. No bigy dont act differently around her then she'll feel uncomftorable and soon you'll ruin the freindship. Just as long as she doesnt make any moves on u u should be fine. Hope i helped drop one if u need anything else
Mandy
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well im about to turn 14 and i have a low self esteem really low and i try to be all happy and wut not but its hard and i talked to my best friend about it and he was like totaly insoulting me and telling me im a idiot for thinking the way i do and wut not.and i dont like the way i look at all but imn thankful 4 wut i do have and im am really shy and i dont think i can go on with life like this cause all i practicly do is put myslef down and now its like part of me and im trying to lose that but its like im alwayz putting myself down for some reason and i feel like if im the worst person in the world and i dunno wut do anymore plz help! (link)
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You sound like one of my best freinds....shes constantly depressed.. but you know what its part of being a teenager this wont be your frist time and it wont be your last. YOu need to go out and have fun be careless about shit you only love once. Do you really wanna get old and ask yourself what did i do as a teenager that was memorable? then u rememebering nothing? I didnt think so so just put everythin behind u and yes tehre will be people out there who make fun of u but ignore it u live how u wanna live not by what others see of u...hope i helped let me know how everything goes.
Mandy
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This summer i met this guy who I really lik. Well my friend told him i like him and i let her cuz i think he likes me back but im not sure. Then he imed me and is like hey whats up but i wasnt at my comp and forgot to put up an away. So hes like well obviousley u dont wanna talk to me so then i come back and he had signed off like two minutes ago. I mean i really like this guy! But then there is another guy i like who lives closer and he likes me too! I just dont know if i shud like be his girlfriend or if i shud take my chances w/ the guy from summer who i really like but wudnt get to c till like next year! I mean i also like the guy who lives near me but i cant stop thinkin bout the boy i met this summer! (link)
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Summer flings are always hard to get over, Trust me iv been in summer flings winter flings spring and fall flings, if you ever need any advice about relationships chances are iv been there done that. You need to go out with the guy who lives by u b/c odds are the summer boy is already getting over u and is with another girl i mean men usually dont wait a year to see there summer fling again they move on and thats what u should do, and if things dont work out withthe guy who loves by u then next summer u can kick it with the summer boy.....hope i helped tell me how everything goes
Mandy
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i have a majer crush on a kid named matt at school and he like me to but now im moveing what shold i do
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Maybe you should just let it be. When you move you'll never see him and long distant relationshops never work out trust me iv been though enough of them. So maybe get his number and call him a couple times a week, if you guys hit it off as well as u do over the phone as u do in person then maybe it might work out, if u guys barley talk once you move then u know it wasnt ment to be.....tell me what happens......mandybrat17
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i have a girlfriend were both very happy but my ex girlfriend is back in town and wants me back. i said no. and i have a girlfriend and she flipped and has been stalking me ever since..im afraid it will become dangerous and she ends up hurting my girlfriend. im totally lost what should i do? (link)
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You need to tell her that its over between you guys, youve moved on, theres nothing left for you and her, your in love with another women somone whos stuck by your side through thick and thin. tell her if she doesnt quite with her baby shit you'll go to the police for the fear of her hurting your new girlfreind. And trust me if it gets that seriouse to where shes stalking u and ur gf then you need to take it up with the police......hope i helped if u need anything else ask me mandybrat17 tell me what happens!
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okay so i have this friend whos basically like a sister and lets say her name is sally well i've known sally since she was born (shes 2 yrs younger than me) and our families are really close so therefore were really close. then i have this guy whos my best friend that i've known for 2 years. we've helped each other through everything and we know everything about each other. well recently we started to have feelings for each other. but my friend sally likes him a whole lot (but the thing is she hasnt met him b4! and when she talks to him online its like hey watsup nothing u same cool yeah...ya know? and idk why she likes him so much she just does! *shes 11*) n e way this guy knows sally likes him but him and i really would make the perfect couple but im just confused about #1 were best friends but idk u know ashlee simpsons song "peices of me" that TOTALLY describes our relationship!! n e way #2 sally wud be heartbroken and the worst thing of it is i know she has no chance with him (i know thats mean) but she hasnt kissed a boy and hes a lil more advanced cuz hes older ya know? and i dont want to tell her that and i was thinking of telling the guy we should just be friends but i like him so much and idk wat to do!! please help me!!! ps. i rate well!
^sorry its long but i need MAJOR help! thnks.... (link)
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Just tell her youve always had feelings for him and you know for a fact he likes you to, tell her that there will be other guys her age she'll go out with but shes just to young for this guy. Say youve been talking to him forever and you guys always talked about getting together and you know for a fact he likes you. Then tell her you guys will go out scooping for a guy for her. She'll feel alot better and she'll get over him if she had someone else so try hooking her up with someone her own age.....i hope i helped....if u need anything else then just ask me mandybrat17
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me and my bff sit at a table with the most 4 boring people ever!....theres one girl we r friends wit the best but she takes us as her bffs...and me and my bff like her but to us she isnt our bff's cuz we cant have a conversation wit her!!!! on the first day of skool we tried sitting wit our other friends just to get away from the table but she came over to me and said "y is lauren(myfriend(bff) sitting over there and y r u here?"(cuz we usually sit at the same lunch table)andshe seemed upset! OMG me and my bff r soo upset at the table we sit it is so boring we cant have a conversation at and we dont kno what to do! Please help me out and give me ur best advice!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Well whatever your do let her down gently dont be mean to her, just let her know that shes a freind but shes not a best freind at least not yet anyway, and its not helping that shes following u guys everywhere, tell hern to go aorund and meet new people not just you guys, im sure theres so many other people in your lunch she would get along with so why dont u introduce her to someone else someone you know she'll get along with.....hope i helped if you need anything else then just ask me mandybrat17
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ok, my friend has liked this guy for two years... and i have liked him for two weeks... he asked me out and i told him that i would have to check with my friend.... and shes like i dont care... but she looks so sad... then my other friend just dumped her boyfriend of 7 months and i kind of like him..... i am so lost plz help me... what should i do? (link)
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DO NOT GO OUT WITH HIM. Trust me girl its not worth it, do you really like seeing your freind sad? iv been through situations like this and guys are never worth a good freindship, go ouit and find a guy she doesnt like so this way you'll both be happy, if you end up dating him shits gonna go down with you and your girl and trust me it wont be pretty, so do the smart thing and forget about him. And dont get withthe other guy either 7 months is a long time to be dating someone and breaking up with them isnt easy to get over eve nthough your freinds not dating him anymore she still has to have feelings for him and if she see's you with him then trust me it wont be pretty so just lay off the ex boyfreinds and freinds crush's........hope i helped if u need any other advice then just ask me mandybrat17
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ok whenever my friends get together i get jealous like that i'm not invited...i mean obviously i cant be invited to everything but i get jealous anyway..is there something wrong with me? (link)
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No girl you just need new freinds, go out and make some new freinds who needs your old ones if they never envite you anywhere then who needs them go out and have your own fun
Muah
Mandy
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