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what shall i do?


Question Posted Thursday September 2 2004, 9:52 pm

ok, my friend has liked this guy for two years... and i have liked him for two weeks... he asked me out and i told him that i would have to check with my friend.... and shes like i dont care... but she looks so sad... then my other friend just dumped her boyfriend of 7 months and i kind of like him..... i am so lost plz help me... what should i do?

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Needed_help answered Saturday September 4 2004, 12:05 am:
You should make sure again if she say yah but still looks sad say you cant because you friend likes him more than you and you've only liked him for two weeks.

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Lucy_Juicy answered Friday September 3 2004, 9:45 pm:
I had the same problem before! Just sort your thoughts out right now about who you really like and who you think you like! Who is cuter? Who is nicer? Who will be there for you when you need them the most? Then you will get your answer! Try to get to know them before you go out with them also and maybe your liking to one of them might change!

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UnluckyWishes answered Friday September 3 2004, 10:09 am:
If you have feelings for someone else too its not really fair to either of you if you go out with the one guy.I mean you might be thinking of the other guy when your going out with your b/f and he'll be thinking about you.Just take some time to sort out who you have feelings for.If you do go out with the other guy just make sure you and your friend hang out and look at hot guys or something to kidna comfort her if you tihnk she's kinda sad about you two going out.Hope i helped.

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Mandybrat17 answered Thursday September 2 2004, 11:06 pm:
DO NOT GO OUT WITH HIM. Trust me girl its not worth it, do you really like seeing your freind sad? iv been through situations like this and guys are never worth a good freindship, go ouit and find a guy she doesnt like so this way you'll both be happy, if you end up dating him shits gonna go down with you and your girl and trust me it wont be pretty, so do the smart thing and forget about him. And dont get withthe other guy either 7 months is a long time to be dating someone and breaking up with them isnt easy to get over eve nthough your freinds not dating him anymore she still has to have feelings for him and if she see's you with him then trust me it wont be pretty so just lay off the ex boyfreinds and freinds crush's........hope i helped if u need any other advice then just ask me mandybrat17

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the_haha_boat answered Thursday September 2 2004, 10:55 pm:
Dont go out with your friends ex's. They may say they dont care, but they do. If you go out with them, they might not think your a very good friend anymore.

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umpalumpa8793 answered Thursday September 2 2004, 10:37 pm:
bozs are like buses another one will come along in 10 minutes however friends are hard to come by no guy or girl isworth losing a friend use your head and think it through how would u feel if u were your friend??? hope this helps

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AllyKnows answered Thursday September 2 2004, 10:33 pm:
okay, now since your friend said it's okay i'm gonna assume you are now going out. k? well, your friend had her chance to say, no i don't want you going out with him. She didn't take it hun so whatever problems she has with you and him, are her problems cuz you gave her the chance to say no. I really think you should stick with this guy cuz hey he could be quite a catch..as much as you might wanna go out with 2 guys, you really can't and actually be..decent. I think you should stay away from the other guy cuz him and his g/f just broke up and it was a pretty long relationship so, i think it's best to stick with what you have and if you find there isn't any chemistry then break up with him and go with the other one..but make sure to give the one you have a chance. I hope everything i said made sence and i hope i helped. Good luck..let me know how it works out!

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