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This might be alittle long but here it goes. One night I was at a party with my bestfriend and her boyfriend. She wasn't feeling well, so her boyfriend and I took her home so she could rest up. Me and her boyfriend ended up going back to the party and got really drunk. We ended up having sex. We both told eachother that we wouldn't tell this girl (My bestfriend, he's girlfriend) what had happened. Well, nither of us has told her yet, it's been almost a week. People are saying shit about us but we both keep brushing it off and saying it's bullshit. She believes us cause of course I'm are her bestfriend and he's her boyfriend. I know I shouldn't be lying to my bestfriend. What should I do? Should I finally stop and tell her? Should I tell her that I also been messing around with him for the past couple of weeks?
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Wow - if you knew it was going to be a mistake in the frist place, why'd you do it? I know being drunk and all makes you forget "somewhat" things, but not all. You still knew that this guy was your bestfriends girlfriend, right? Secondly, I don't think you guys should have agreed to the hole "Not telling her about this". That's just wrong. You both should have confessed what you did the next day. A week and she still doesn't know? If she's your bestfriend, you have to tell her. First question. What should you do? You should tell her. You should both tell her. Both you and her boyfriend should sit down with her and tell her about that night. Yah, she'll probably hate you guys both and not talk to you for awhile. But, you have to tell her. You can't keep brushing off stuff like this. Second question. Yes, you should stop what your doing and tell her. If you think it's wrong in the first place, why do you keep doing it over and over? I mean, once is enough, you guys were drunk and that's fine. But, you keep going behind her back and having sex with her boyfriend? That's just wrong hun, I'm sorry. Finally, last question. Should you tell her about you guys messing around? Yes! You have to tell her. You can't just keep saying what them people are saying is bullshit. Both of you guys must feel like total shits, lying to her. I mean, I would, I'd feel so bad that I would have to tell her. So tell her! You HAVE to!
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